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Dating Disasters
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Straight Male / 31
First Date
I met this woman at a coffee shop and we started talking. We found out we were both single and she actually asked me out. The next we went out to dinner and back to her place. She mentioned she likes to know what a man likes before she has any sexual relations with him. She told me the best way to find out was to watch him masturbate and tells me to do it for her. I dropped my pants and started stroking but told me to fully undress and show my body off first. I stood in front of her showing myself off. She then told me to start masturbating again. This was actually the first time anyone had watched me do this. I was a little embarrassed at first but as I continued that feeling went away. I finished blowing my load on her coffee table like she had instructed me to do. I cleaned up and she told me to stay undressed.
A half hour had passed and she said she wanted to see if I could do it again. It took longer for me to do it but I did cum again. At this point she told me it was getting late and we ended our night.
I received a call from her the next day asking for $500. I asked why and was told to keep things private. I told her I didn't know what she meant and I don't hand out money like that. She said fine and I would find out why soon enough and we ended our call. She texted me a link and said others would get it too if I didn't give her what she asked for. I wasn't going to give in and said she was getting nothing and we were through.
I went to the coffee shop to possibly see she her again and talk to her but she wasn't there. One of the barista's mentioned my girlfriend was in earlier and said I was too much of a pervert to date. She then tells me the video she showed her shows it. She mentioned the other baristas think so too. I tried to explain she was blackmailing me for money. A guy in the line was overhearing our conversation and just asked what this woman looked like. I started to describer her and then he added some things to the description mentioning we might have both been taken advantage of by the same woman. We compared our descriptions and it was the same woman. He said he went to the police and logged a complaint but they said they couldn't do much. He asked much money she got off of me and I told him I refused to pay. He said he lost a $1000 to her and even though he paid she still posted his pictures.
We had a coffee together and discussed things further. He said she send links to the video to his company and family so quite a few people have seen it now. He said his company and family understand but it doesn't change the fact that they have seen him doing what he was doing. When I asked how bad and embarrassing his video was he pulled out his phone and showed me. His was a lot more graphic and more out there than I would ever do. He asked me to show him mine. He said he was part of a support group and they told him the best way to get over it is to start accepting it happened. I showed him the video and he said I should join his support group. I declined at first and then went.
I went to this support group and there were 8 of us. They each spoke and I spoke last. They had me explain everything that happened and then had me show the video. It was weird to say the least but once they finished watching the video they wanted me to reenact what I was doing. There were 4 of us guys in the group and they said they would do it with me. I thought this was a joke a but the 3 other guys began undressing. I was in shock and they came over and began undressing me. They started stroking themselves and when they saw I wasn't they came over and began stroking me. At the end of this they had made me cum and they didn't themselves. They got dressed while i was still in shock. They began to say that this was my first step to accepting what that woman had done to me. I put on my clothes and left and never came back.
I felt I was violated a second time but this time may have been worse. This time I was undressed by 3 other men and then they literally took matters in thier hands.
A half hour had passed and she said she wanted to see if I could do it again. It took longer for me to do it but I did cum again. At this point she told me it was getting late and we ended our night.
I received a call from her the next day asking for $500. I asked why and was told to keep things private. I told her I didn't know what she meant and I don't hand out money like that. She said fine and I would find out why soon enough and we ended our call. She texted me a link and said others would get it too if I didn't give her what she asked for. I wasn't going to give in and said she was getting nothing and we were through.
I went to the coffee shop to possibly see she her again and talk to her but she wasn't there. One of the barista's mentioned my girlfriend was in earlier and said I was too much of a pervert to date. She then tells me the video she showed her shows it. She mentioned the other baristas think so too. I tried to explain she was blackmailing me for money. A guy in the line was overhearing our conversation and just asked what this woman looked like. I started to describer her and then he added some things to the description mentioning we might have both been taken advantage of by the same woman. We compared our descriptions and it was the same woman. He said he went to the police and logged a complaint but they said they couldn't do much. He asked much money she got off of me and I told him I refused to pay. He said he lost a $1000 to her and even though he paid she still posted his pictures.
We had a coffee together and discussed things further. He said she send links to the video to his company and family so quite a few people have seen it now. He said his company and family understand but it doesn't change the fact that they have seen him doing what he was doing. When I asked how bad and embarrassing his video was he pulled out his phone and showed me. His was a lot more graphic and more out there than I would ever do. He asked me to show him mine. He said he was part of a support group and they told him the best way to get over it is to start accepting it happened. I showed him the video and he said I should join his support group. I declined at first and then went.
I went to this support group and there were 8 of us. They each spoke and I spoke last. They had me explain everything that happened and then had me show the video. It was weird to say the least but once they finished watching the video they wanted me to reenact what I was doing. There were 4 of us guys in the group and they said they would do it with me. I thought this was a joke a but the 3 other guys began undressing. I was in shock and they came over and began undressing me. They started stroking themselves and when they saw I wasn't they came over and began stroking me. At the end of this they had made me cum and they didn't themselves. They got dressed while i was still in shock. They began to say that this was my first step to accepting what that woman had done to me. I put on my clothes and left and never came back.
I felt I was violated a second time but this time may have been worse. This time I was undressed by 3 other men and then they literally took matters in thier hands.