Son’s Bad Behaviour

Oh my God …
I found pairs of my used panties in my son’s bedroom! For the better part of a year I had been thinking I was losing my mind because I couldn’t remember where I put them or whether I threw the out. I mean, how do I misplace a half dozen pairs of panties? I haven’t said anything to him because I wasn’t sure what he was doing with them. Was he wearing them? Worse yet, was he smelling them?! Maybe masturbating to them!
I was horrified at the thought. I realize at 19 years of age, he has his hormones raging but I’m his mother! His older brother (24) as far as I know, never did stuff like this.
Well a few days later while he was out with friends, I rummaged through his room to see what else may be hidden. His laptop was sitting on his bed so I opened it and checked what might be on it and to my absolute horror, I came upon many videos of me in my bedroom and bathroom in various stages of dress and undress. I’m a divorced woman who hasn’t a lot of time or need to date but I do have needs and he had a special folder title “toying around” with videos of me coming to orgasm while using my vibrators. All I could do was cry. So violated is how I feel. There were so many videos, it would take me hours to view them all. I asked myself, why would he do this? Then I thought, my God … is he sharing these? I quickly looked through his emails and just as I feared, there had to be a hundred of them, sent to his friends and others of me going to the bathroom, showering, changing my clothing and yes masturbating! I read many of the responses, his friends commenting on how turned on they were with several sending videos of themselves getting off while supposedly watching me! As if that wasn’t bad enough, these young men are trading videos with each other, of their sisters and mothers many of whom I recognize and know! I’ve found the hidden cameras but at this point I don’t know what to do! If I tell his father, I’m sure he would want to strangle him. His brother is out of the question. And these other women deserve to know what’s going on! The big question is, what to do about it? I don’t want my son or his friends charged with sex crimes. It would ruin their lives. Any ideas?

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Nov 25, 2023 at 9:56 AM

Covering up the cameras will get his attention and send a subtle message that you know and hopefully start a calm adult comversation. He is a horny teen, but thats no excuse. Theres plenty of porn out there where he does not have to stoop to violating your privacy. Not to mention in most states what he is doing is a serious crime. Good luck.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Nov 25, 2023 at 10:01 AM

I concur with the fellow above. I can understand your concern about sex crimes but really you and the other women are being violated by these perverts. And that’s what they are! I would take the cameras down immediately and at the very least, gather the names of others parents and discuss what to do next. We live in strange times.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Nov 25, 2023 at 11:23 AM

Probably best to just let it go. Once word gets out, everyone in the community will be on the internet looking for the pics and videos. This little secret ,although annoying is nothing compared to what can happen. In my community, there was a small scandal about things the boys on the track team had posted on social media. Next thing you knew, everyone was watching and sharing the content.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Nov 28, 2023 at 5:44 PM

Or you could own his ass! Call him in with his laptop open and make him squirm and grovel.
Take the power position and leverage him to whichever end result you desire.
It's all easy for him as long as no adults know, put him under the spotlight and he will behave differently. You know what leverage will be most effective.
Just a thought, either way would love an update

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