Obedience Is The Most Consequential Vow Of All

I don't understand what the issue is with obedience. A woman obeys God's word. A woman obeys her father when she was in his house. A woman obeys the law of the land. A woman obeys her brother if her father is missing. So why is it such a deal for a woman to obey her husband.

Her father 'gave' her to him, to be of 'his' house from that day forward. A woman takes his name, to be of 'his' name from that day forward. A woman bears 'his' children, to raise and care for and bring up to be God fearing and render obedience to their father. A woman accepts marriage, thus accepting that her husband is her Lord on earth as Jesus is her Lord in Heaven. Obedience is the virtue by which a marriage is cemented.

Image a disobedient wife. Just imagine. What would that house be? Her children? It's unconscionable to be disobedient to your husband. Disobedience is an insult to the man of the house, Lord of his realm. It is his hand that you follow. It is under his roof that you live. It is his name that you honor. It his protection that you seek. A husband is not to be taken lightly, if is only with the permission of your father that you move to your husband's house.

No ma'am, if you are a disobedient wife I do not want anything to do with you. For you have broken the most consequential vow of all. It is you husband that must render account to God Almighty. Be ever thankful for your father, for your brother, and be ever thankful for your husband. For without a husband you cannot be a wife.