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- My Spouse -
Bi-Sexual Male / 66

Masturbation

I, 66m, have always been a chronic masturbator. I also have spinal issues and ED due to nerve damage and age. So while my libido is still high, I can't stay hard long, not enough to even penetrate my wife 69f). So we have been finding other ways to satisfy each orally, sexual massage, and masturbating each other.

I finally told her I masturbated a lot since we only have intimate times once a week or two weeks. I don't like that it's not more frequent so I masturbate like every other day. She's not so forthcoming about her masturbation.

I bought her several vibrators to use on herself and for me to use on her. I told her how erotic it is for me to use them on her and I have asked her to show me how she uses them while I masturbate and squeeze and massage her breasts. I usually don't last long. Last Sunday I orally pleaded her and she's usually sensitive after she cums but I said I want to use your toys on you and she let me. I laid down next to her and she started to perform oral sex on me but I couldn't wait and said let me help you and I'll jerk off in your mouth. As I was jerking off I asked if she liked to watch me and said yes to which I said why don't you ever tell me? We've been married over 40 years. She said I don't know.

She was brought up in a catholic household. I think that has something to do with it and I am the only man she's been with (I don't doubt her).

She puts her vibrators in a bag in a dresser drawer. Lately I place the bag in certain positions and check it to see if she's been masturbating. When I find the bag out of position, I get so turned on by it that I end up getting myself off.

Many nights we watch TV separately and lately I have noticed that she's been masturbating while I am in the other room. She doesn't tell me that she doing it, but I know from the sound of her drawer and a couple times I thought I heard her moan which sends me over the edge. I ended up masturbating thinking about her masturbating.

Here's what I don't understand. Why is it so secretive for her to talk about masturbating? Why doesn't she ask me to join? Granted I don't ask her but she knows how much it turns me on.

Any other long married couples experience this?

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# 79239 - by Jackmeoff5 / May 22, 2025
    • - My Spouse -
    Straight Male / 27

    Control Was The Fantasy, My Wife Decided

    Like other some other men, I've had the fantasy of wanting my wife to fuck another man. My wife is very inexperienced sexually compared to me. Because of the difference, I encouraged her to try other men. During the year before we were married, she slept with three guys knowing I was good with it. As she told me about them, it was clear she liked being fucked, but was circumspect about it at the same time. She did not seek out other men. But, if an opportunity arose with someone attractive to her, she would let them fuck her. But, not a lot. Among the three guys, according to my wife, she fucked them maybe fifteen times in total. I have no reason to doubt her. She is very straight forward with me. I felt I had some control over what she was trying because she wouldn't do it without my approval and she limited what she did and when she did it. Sort of in line with my expectations of her.

    When I got her to engage in a threesome with me and a mutual friend, it was her first time. I set her up for it with our friend. Although our friend did not fuck her that night, he did go down on her for a long time and I fucked her while she sucked his dick. Our friend later explained to her that he did not feel comfortable fucking her with me in the room. A year later, I suggested to my friend that perhaps he would be comfortable by inviting my wife to his place one Friday night. He did. And, I told my wife I thought she should go. I knew she was nervous about going being fully aware of what would happen if she did. I said she should enjoy herself sexually, fuck him a couple of times, and I would see her later that night.

    Around midnight she gave me a quick call to let me know she wouldn't be home until the next day. She finally showed up in the late afternoon on Saturday. She was filled with cum. I was in the mistaken mindset of thinking I needed to urge my wife to try sex with other men. What I discovered was my wife chose to fuck our friend because she wanted to, not because I had asked. She enjoyed being fucked.. Now home, she told she had fucked our friend at least ten times in the past 20 hours. He had already fucked her twice when she called to tell me she wouldn't be home that night. In fact, she said he had a dildo in her when she called which was why the call was so short.


    She fucked him twice more that night and again in the morning. When they showered, he bent her over and fucked her again. After going out for breakfast, they went back to his place and got back in bed. Our friend is on the small side, so my wife let him fuck her ass while she used the dildo on herself. Just before she came home, they fucked again. After hearing all of this, I grabbed her and fucked her hard and passionately until I had a huge orgasm and filled her with my cum.

    What I thought was control that I had over encouraging my wife to fuck our friend and setting some boundaries went out the window. Once she had come with him, she wanted more and she decided how that was going to happen. So, she delayed coming home. She wanted our friend to fuck her brains out and he did. Strangely enough, what she did with our friend has made her very sexy to me.

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    # 79235 - by Jacob / May 22, 2025
    - My Spouse -
    Straight Male / 38

    There's A Price To Pay...

    Developed an obsession with total enclosure bondage, and raised it with my wife of fifteen years, who didn't care for the idea, but eventually gave in for the sake of peace and quiet, so I bought a truly wicked bondage-bag, and pestered her when it arrived.

    "Ok..I'll DO it, but I really don't want to, so there will be consequences! Long as you understand that!" Impatient, I indicated acceptance, and it was everything I had ever fantasised about, and proved me to be what they call a "claustrophile"

    "Well, now you're safely tucked away, I'll tell you, there's a guy at work been pestering me to start dating him, and I just might be mean enough to bring him home, and let him have a good look, and laugh at you, probably...you've always been an arrogant bastard, and this might just be humiliating enough to take you down a peg or five...my fantasy has become watching him subject you to the most horrendous orgasm-denial, as I insist he keeps wanking you to the point of your near-insanity! That much humiliation seems appropriate for an asshole such as you've become, and I'm pretty sure I'm going to enjoy every hour of it...you - probably not so much, but to my surprise, I don't really care if you enjoy it or not! It WILL happen, and I think it'll be real fun! At least for me, maybe even you...You've always liked my "hand-jobs" so now you get a chance to 'enjoy' a different way...just had a thought - maybe he's got friends - I'd love to see you have to suck them all off, turn about, over and over, until they can't manage any more - at least not on that particular opportunity...I'm sure you get my drift...you're a smart guy, other than this one 'failing' and I think it would be good for you to spend years like that! Or until I divorce you, having had enough, at some time"

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    # 79232 - by 'It' / May 22, 2025
    • - My Spouse -
    Straight Female / 52

    I Like To Expose My Husband

    I have no earthly idea why, but I get incredibly turned on by showing off my husband? I'm not sure if it's the idea that other women find him attractive, but I get to have him, or is it that it validates my opinion that he is attractive? I have no idea why, but I totally get off on it. This feeling and turn on was unexpected and started one holiday while a lifelong girlfriend visited us. Hubby and I had been married maybe 4 years, and my friend came for the holidays, she wasn't married. While she was there, she and I were drinking wine one evening and I mentioned that I had gotten my hubby some very sexy holiday boxer shorts that were green velvet with a big red bow across the front like a Christmas present. She and I laughed, and she kept pestering me to have him model those for us. The next night, on purpose, we got him tipsy and just before bed I suggested that he model the boxers for me. Of course, he went into his closet to put them on for me, and as planned my friend knocked at our bedroom door while he was in his closet changing, I invited her in. When he came out, he was wearing the boxers, and she was "accidently" standing there talking to me. He was startled and we all laughed and prodded him to show us! He did and we had him give us a show. My friend was sitting on the bench with me, and she playfully slapped his bottom, and he exaggerated and yelled out. I told him awww come here and let me kiss it! He actually did and I pulled the back of the boxers down and right in front of my friend give is bottom a kiss. I had the waist pulled down so far that she got a good look at little bottom and his full balls from behind! I was soaking wet and persuaded him to show us the other underwear that I had gotten him previously. He turned red but agreed to since he was comfortable with my oldest and best friend. He paraded in front of us with a few different things. One, a sheer black pair that had a pouch in front for his penis that looked like and elephant trunk, as he got hard, he filled the trunk, and we all laughed hysterically! I was laughing but it was totally making me soak the crotch of my thong! My friend made a comment that hubby had a great body and that just stoked my fire! The last thing he modeled for us was a sheer nearly see through swimsuit that he only wore for me in our hot tub, since you could see everything. We were both mesmerized that we had watched him grow fully erect in front of us, and we kept grabbing and teasing him. After a few minutes of this he had a large wet spot where his swollen head was. I could hardly get my friend out of the bedroom before I pulled off those boxers and rubbed hubby on my soaking wet vagina! I have since done so many other things to set him up to be seen, and I can talk about those experiences if this confession isn't too boring for everyone. Maybe I can ever get some ideas to try?

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    # 79213 - by Amanda / May 21, 2025
    - My Spouse -
    Straight Female / 28

    Easy To Please Husband

    We've been married six years and we have a very close relationship in all ways. Early on, I discovered it was easy to please my husband sexually. I am very responsive and I love fucking him. The shear physical pleasure is amazing. And, I love him. During our second year of marriage, he asked me something really surprising.

    Bill was a close friend and my husband asked me to fuck Bill while he watched. Frankly, I could hardly believe what he wanted. He explained that he was strongly aroused by thinking about me fucking someone else. Before we met, I had slept with three different guys and noticed my husband liked to hear about my sex life. I was sparing in what I told him, but I did notice he liked talking about what I had done.

    Bill came over and my husband asked him to fuck me. Bill began by holding me and kissing me. Gradually, his hands moved to my breasts. I took off my top and let Bill take off my bra. He sucked on my hard nipple and then rubbed my pussy. I took off my shorts and Bill went down on me. When I looked at my husband, he was masturbating. As I took all of Bill into me, I moaned and he starting fucking me. After a bit, I told Bill I wanted to be on top and I fucked him until we both came. I showed my husband the cum dripping out of me and he came to an orgasm. The whole scene was electric with with sexuality.

    As I said at the start, my husband is easy to please.

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    # 79209 - by Josie / May 21, 2025
    • - My Spouse -
    Straight Female / 32

    Sometimes It Costs Money

    My husband loves cumming on my face it’s his kink for me. Sometime to get things done around the house I will say for example( if you build those garden beds for me this weekend I’ll suck your dick and you can cum on my face) and wouldn’t you know those garden beds were built in a day lol. It’s funny that he will do almost anything to nut in my face. Very rarely he will offer me money instead of doing work. The one night we were watching a movie and he paused it looked at me and said I’ll give $150 right now if I can jerkoff on your face and I just said sure and he actually e-transferred me later on.

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    # 79189 - by Sydney / May 20, 2025
    - My Spouse -
    Straight Female / 27

    What My Husband Wanted

    I am a person who does not like confrontations and I don't like displeasing people, especially my husband. That's why I let our friend fuck me last week. My husband told me he wanted me to let another guy cum in me, so that he could fuck me after. He said he wanted to feel what it was like to fuck me with another man's cum in me. When our friend finished, my husband fucked me really hard and passionately. He hasn't talked to me about what he wants next, but I suspect I'm going to be shared for a while.

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    # 79180 - by Allia / May 20, 2025
    - My Spouse -
    Straight Male / 37

    I Knew What I Was Getting Into - Literally

    I married a plain, overeight older woman, with a truly foul disposition, who basically wanted a sex-slave, and good housekeeper, and she has exploited this side of my psych make-up mercilessly for ten years now...every night I curl up beside her, trapped in a rubber-lined canvas bodybag, which I'm only allowed out of, to earn her money, and do all the housework before being returned to the bag, on average ten or more hours in twenty-four, and all weekend. She does give the most amazing hand-jobs though, which she prefers me to hate but still want more of...I figure I got another good twenty years of this, cumming....

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    # 79158 - by Bagman666 / May 19, 2025
    - My Spouse -
    Straight Female / 36

    I Asked My Husband About Fantasies

    We have a great life together, been married about eleven years now and a few years into it I asked him what he fantasizes about. He had a big smile go across is face, sort of looked downward then back up at me and said I probably would either laugh or leave him if he told me. I was thinking come on, how wild and crazy could they be, he was the most honest man I had ever met, honest to a fault from what his mother told me about the siblings all growing up together. He never talked about past girlfriends, admitted to me when we were first getting intimate that he had in fact been with other women before me, I told him the same and was not a virgin or a slut.
    He finally came out with one. I was a little surprised by it but certainly knew he had this as a fantasy and would never act on it without consent. I barely had to think about it, I trusted him with my life, trusted him to never do anything that would even hurt me or make me think less of him. I told him Okay, just at least give me an idea of when he wanted to do it because, you know a lady has that time of the month so that would definitely put a damper on it. He told me no worries, he could tell when that was going on for sure and I was thinking that he had cracked some code of women with this and he replied back saying, Nope, just see the wrappers in the trash next to the sink when it is going on. The man is a genius for sure and I never thought about it.
    So after several weeks of coming home from my girls evenings and any other time I came home and knew he was already home I walked into the house on edge waiting for him to jump out at me. Nothing was going on though, no fantasy fulfillment yet. Then one evening while having to work late I came home not even thinking about it as I walked thru the house, the TV was on, lights were on, everything seemed completely normal then a pillowcase came down of my head clear to my waist and he wrapped duct tape around me binding my arms to my sides and picked me up taking me to the basement. I stared at the fabric hood on me thinking, my God what is waiting for me down there?!? Suspension bondage, that is what, the man had been working on a set up for weeks perfecting how to suspend me from the beam in the basement and play with me sexually. His fantasy you ask? Force a woman to orgasm and do what he wanted with her sexually. Oh my God it was the most amazing thing for the next probably two hours, my body experienced things never before done to me. The foreplay was intense, the orgasm denial near torturous but tenderly done to me. I almost had an orgasm when he put this thing in my mouth holding it open then held my hair making me suck on him. I cannot explain it, nearly sent me of the edge with pleasure. The tickling though had me gasping for air, barely could talk as I begged him to stop it as his fingers worked every tickle zone on me and there are a lot!!
    When it was all over I was spent, could not even tell you how many orgasms I had and gave him. Once I was back on my feet and we were hugging I told him he could do that anytime he wants.

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    # 79149 - by Sara / May 19, 2025
    • - My Spouse -
    Straight Male / 36

    Lifetime Submission

    Married a plain, overweight lady, ten years older than me, but a true sadist, in outlook...I am locked into a truly wicked leather hood, blind, nearly deaf, and unable to make anything of any sense, vocally. as soon as I return from work, and every and all weekend and holiday time. If I don't perform adequately to her satisfaction, with at least one orgasm for her, she has a tiny triangular corner closet, which will be my 'home' until she's ready to give me another attempt at her satisfaction...the time passes slowly, and I'm always motivated to do better...if I succeed, she ties my wrists behind my back, and subjects me to almost inhuman orgasm-denial, thus motivating me to greater efforts from then on...weird lifestyle, but I love it, and look foard to many more years of a similar nature! Yeah okay, I'm crazy, but there's room for that these days too!

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    # 79148 - by Bagman666 / May 19, 2025
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