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Follow Up On "My Coworker"

Since last week and my confession about my coworker, things have evolved.

I saw her a few days later, and again we greeted by a kiss on the cheek, with lips almost touching as usual, but nothing more. There were people in the room so I was not really sure if she was being cold after I had reminded her I was in a relationship, but then she managed to grab my hand and hold it for longer that needed. She then left to go to her "office" (not really an office but I don't know how I could say it in English).

I finished what I had to do, and on my way out, I went to see her to say goodbye (we work odd shifts and she started work when I ended mine). We chatted a bit, we kissed on the cheeks and I almost left. Then something irrelevant happened that made me stay a bit to help, and after that I went again to say goodbye.

As i leaned in to say goodbye, we kissed. It was really nice and lovely. She made a small pleasure moan when our lips parted, and I may very well have made one too. I'm not sure, I think my brain shut off for a few seconds.

In order to not look too suspicious to the other working in the next room, I left just after this. She send me a text message 5mn later to tell she had loved it, and I told her I did too.

Now, we chat by WhatsApp when we can, and we have discussed some important points, like discretion at work or my current relationship. It appears that we are both in the same state of mind regarding those subjects.

As I am writing this confession, we are planning how we are going to take a drink tomorrow. It'll be the first time we see each other without any coworkers around us, so we'll be able to be act freely. I look forward to it !

My Coworker

I'm a 43 years old male, and my partner is a 40 years old female.

We've known each other since highschool, and date since 13 years approximately.

Lately, things are not going so well as they used to do. We bicker and argue a lot, and there's almost no sex life between us. We are both responsible for this situation.

I still love her, but I have a hard time seeing me with her for years anymore. I don't plan on leaving her, in part because as I said I still love her and don't want to hurt, in part because when we don't fight we have fantastic time together, and in part because we just moved in our new home and we would both find ourselves in a dire situation if we broke up.

At work, there is this woman, a bit older than me. She's really cute and funny, and she's hitting on me hard. I've always been the kind of guy ladies love to have around, but I've never been hit on much, and absolutely never this clearly.

At first it scared me because I'm technically her boss (higher rank but the same departement), but after a while I saw that she was flirty with everyone so I eased up.

Then it turned to the heavy flirting, as far as I can tell only with me. She tells me she wants me to go home with her, or that she can't live without seeing me, stuff like that. She always laughs after saying this, but even a dumb*ss like me finally understood that she was flirting. Once she was speaking with one of her colleague, and she said that I was really hard to seduce. She said this while I was in the office, glancing at me. Another time, I greeted by saying "Hello granny" since her oldest son just became a father, and she answered with "hello grandpa" while smiling.

Now when we kiss on the cheek for greeting each mornin (as we do here in France), our lips almost connect, her hand is on my back and mine on her gently stroking her. Sometimes our hands touch each other and we hold for a moment. On our last day of work, she said she wanted to rest her head on my shoulder a bit while we walked (which made us walk a bit awkwardly). I almost kissed her on the forehead, and told her that it was not good since I'm in couple and she knows it. She answered that we were not doing anything wrong, and then someone came in so we had to part. We kissed on the cheek again to say goodbye, lips almost touching again, and left.

Now I'm lost. I do not know what to do next time I see her, and what to do after this. I do not want to leave my wife, even for her, but I really feel lonely and this attention is really good to feel. I could definitely enjoy a side affair as I have almost no sex life, but I don't want to hurt my wife if she finds out. I'm scared that this could have a negative impact at work, but the thought of having this kind of relation is exciting. I feel my resolve and ethics eroding each time I see her.

Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

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