I'm 23 married and I have a family. I met this girl on an anonymous chat site and now i'm head over heels for her. We live in the same state but a long ways apart. I love her but she's 17. I'm done for...
It's probably a dude.
17 will get you 20. And, it's probably a dude... a fat 48 year old in a wife beater married to a fugly beast that calls herself a BBW.