im a husband, my wife refuses sex and doesnt even let me touch her at times, yet on her computer are so many stories she is writing about her and my mates, and describing positions she would even do with me... she never gives me head yet her stories contain my mates and how she goes down on them... i just sit back and let her go.. but i am so sexually frustrated, is this normal for 7 yrs of marriage, where in the first yr she could never get enough sex from me... what do i do,... AFFAIRS ARE NOT THE ANSWER i love her too much I wrote this earlier but want some replies from women who can help me or give me suggestions...