So I think I'm falling for my husbands best friend. Or I'm crushing really hard. Lately my husband has become distant, unappreciative, and our once mind-blowing sex life is fizzling out fast. His friend comes over all the time. Every weekend and at least a couple days of the week. He even comes over when my husband is still at work. Even though he's my husbands friend, we're very close. We have never done anything "inappropriate" ever. I think about him all the time. When he's here, when he's not, when I'm sleeping. I don't know if I just crave the attention that my husband used to give me or what. This is driving me crazy. I want him so bad. We are very similar personality wise and if my husband and I have a disagreement he almost always takes my side. I catch him looking at me. But I don't want to make the first move. I have a feeling that my marriage isn't going to make it in the long run but I don't want to bee the one to split it up. I can control myself, I just had to get this off my chest. Maybe since its out there somewhere I can start to get over it.

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by Anonymous on Sep 3, 2011 at 10:10 AM

Maybe your husband will have an accident.

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by Anonymous on Sep 5, 2011 at 6:34 PM

you are a stupid whore! seek counseling. The grass is not greener on the other side? after he fucks you a couple hundred times he will do the same as your husband and you will feel the same. at least try to make it exciting with your hubby first good luck stupid whore.

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by Anonymous on Sep 7, 2011 at 8:23 AM

what your feeling is not uncommon, aside from the inappropriate language responses from the individuals above, the latter comment is correct in that the grass is not any greener, my recommendation is to put that energy if finding a way to work on your marriage, a couple ideas is possibly to see couple counseling together, plans special nights with your husband, tease him like you would if you were dating again....find out why he is so distance from you....and definitely tell his friend not to come around when your husband is not around. good luck

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by Anonymous on Sep 7, 2011 at 11:12 AM

I agree with #3. You need to focus this energy on your marriage. I would also add that it may not all be your husbands fault. You need to look inside yourself before looking at him. Make sure you are putting forth the effort you did in the past. MArriage isn't easy and never will be. We all have to work at it and fight tooth and nail to keep it together.

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by Anonymous on Sep 12, 2011 at 1:46 PM

Your husband has a post here about how he just fucked his best friends ass.

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by Anonymous on Oct 5, 2011 at 2:58 AM

The friends a player saying anything you want to hear. Damn women can be so stupid.

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by Anonymous on Oct 19, 2011 at 1:02 PM

I think the comments above are not helpful and are not what you need. You are only human with human desires like any other woman281/3. You need to get this out of your system and there is only one way and you know what you must do. Make the first move, why not? It will not be easy opening your thighs for another man and letting him cock your your pussy but believe me it will be so therapeutic for you.

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by Anonymous on Oct 6, 2017 at 9:01 PM

I'm having a similar struggle. You're not alone in feeling something for another man, while feeling like your heart is drifting from your husband. I have a crush on my husband's co-worker. We haven't done anything inappropriate but part of me really wants to and my crush had let me know, he's interested in me as well.

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