I am female. I am 24 years old. What I have to say here is true but I'm looking for advice more then just trying to confess. My boyfriend wants to try anal sex. I am affraid to try. He is very well endowed. The first time I saw his penis erect, I was shocked. No exaggeration, he is just over 10 inches long, and he is 7 inches around! (Strangely enough, when he is flaccid, it looks normal size). That's the honest truth. I told my girlfriend, and she laughed at me. It took me a bit to convince her I was telling the truth. Anyway, I can suck him off, but I can't get his whole length down my throat. I can have sex with him, but I can't fit all of him in me, it just hurts too much. We have figured things out. We have great sex. Just once in a while he geta over excited and tries to push more of himself in me. My yelps usually snap him out of it. Well he has been bugging me to try anal sex. I want to make him happy, but there is no way that huge thing is fitting up my bum! I have tried to see how I can handle things in there. I used my finger. Then moved on to a brush handle. I even bought a large rubber penis from the sex shop. That hurt like hell and it wasn't even close to the same size as my boyfriend's. I have spoke to my friend, and she doesn't get it. I think she watches too much porn. She is under the idea that bigger is better. I agree when I comes to looking at it. I get wet seeing that huge hard cock. And bigger is better when it comes to more normal sizes. But his is, well, too big. Any advice? Anybody have suggestions? I know its not an advice site, but I have read a lot of the comments here and most are advice.