my wife and i used to have really great sex (when she was my girlfriend) but since got married, she put on a lot of weight and
i don't find her to be sexy. she has sexy clothes but no longer looks sexy in them. i am horny all them time and would like to have some (safe) kinky sex but she doesnt and i will not consider running around on her. i did that when i was young and stupid. thank god i grew up, but... advice is appreciated.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Mar 2, 2012 at 9:01 AM

How much wieght are we talking about here? Look past it. Unless she was 125 lbs and now she's 300. That will be harder to look past. Getting sexy stuf in her current size can still be sexy. Kinky, that's tough. If she isn't into it, nothing you can do to chsnge it. I have never done anal. My lady won't. She says she thinks it will hurt. She did it with her ex husband but in her words, he's smaller than you and it hurt when he did. So I know I'm not getting it. I continue to drop hints. Joke about it. But if it ever happens it will be because she decided to. I can't make her. Good luck man. Hope you can be happy.

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by Anonymous on Jul 15, 2012 at 1:46 PM

I am in the same boat! My wife is 5' 4" and weighed 110 lb's when we got married and after two kids she now weighs 155 lb's and I am just not sexualy attracted to her. I still love her vey much but there is no longer a sex life. Wish I had some advice for you but I haven't figured out how to handle it either. One more thing, I work hard to stay in shape but the wife dosen't seem to think her weight is a big deal. No sex in five years! NO BIG DEAL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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by Anonymous on Sep 21, 2012 at 6:24 PM

TALK TO HER! Encourage her to sign up to the gym, go with her to the gym, compliment her every time she sweats her butt off and soon enough she will be lighter and you can fuck her again

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by Anonymous on Sep 28, 2012 at 10:14 AM

she is 5'2". she was a very cute blond with a very sexy figure and the clubwear dresses.
she put 35 lbs and now cant wear any of her clothes. we have talked about but all i get is excuses. no exercise. no walking at the park.
and she has a very healthy appetite which doesnt help. i'm screwed and in a bad way. help.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jan 5, 2013 at 4:37 PM

This post was three months ago, so you may never see my response.

DO THIS SHIT WITH HER! Nothing motivates like doing exercise and what not with your partner, you are accountable. If you join a gym and set a schedule, or better yet, do exercises every morning with her theres no getting out of it.

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by Anonymous on Jan 6, 2013 at 11:01 AM

I guess a good question is, does SHE still want sex?

you see my wife does not want sex. if it were up to my I would fuck my wife all weekend.

yes no clothes just sex and take out. just fuck her, have a sex marathon

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