I've been married for 8 years now, and I just now let a guy I work with fuck my brains out. And I feel no remorse.

He's been after me for months, but I always told myself I'd hate myself if I gave in. He is a bit younger and quite hot, and after all these years things have gotten a bit boring on the home front.

But I always kept things under control because I thought I'd feel horrible if I cheated. And now I have, and I don't feel horrible. In fact, I can't wait to be with him again. And I don't want to end the marriage. I'm really confused. Thoughts?

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Oct 30, 2007 at 7:29 PM

Your story could be mine almost word for word, except for the part that I'm male and he's a little older than I am.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Nov 1, 2007 at 9:19 AM

Proving once again that,under the right circumstances, all women are whores.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Nov 1, 2007 at 11:57 AM

Absolutely true!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Nov 1, 2007 at 6:54 PM

A lot depends on what exactly you did and where you go from here. Did you use protection? If no, you need a pregnancy test and a full set of STD's to come back clean before you can let your husband(?) touch you. And no - I have no idea how you should explain that. Maybe a bladder infection.

And do you plan to continue with the cheating? If yes, end things now. There is such a thing as Karma in this world. As painful as ending things may be, infidelity is the worst thing one person can inflict on another.

Yes, speaking from experience.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Nov 3, 2007 at 11:57 AM

I carried on an affair with a guy from work for years. I felt a little funny seeing my husband for the first time after - well - the first time. Somehow thought he might be able to tell.

After that, all was well. We were always careful, safe, and discreet - nobody got hurt. In fact, I think it helped my love life at home. There was something really hot about sleeping with BF after work and hubby the same night. Made me feel really wanted & sexy.

He moved out of town, but every now & again we still manage to connect. And it is still great. Haven't run into anyone else that I feel like having a fling with, but this one worked out just fine.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Nov 3, 2007 at 4:49 PM

Most women are not whores, I resent you saying that. I have never cheated on my husband or any of my former boyfriends. I have however, been cheated on plenty of times. Don't blame all woman for what the woman you dated did to you or group us all into whores.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Nov 4, 2007 at 12:43 AM

I know how you feel. I've cheated before and when I did it I didn't feel any regret either. But let me tell you if/when your husband does find out nothing hurts more than seeing how much you've hurt him. I speak from experience. If I were you, I wouldn't feel guilty about what you did but I definetly wouldn't do it again. Just let it go. And if you really can't control yourself then it might be time to breakup.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Dec 12, 2007 at 2:24 PM

Infidelity is the worst thing one can inflict on another?
Really?!
How about slowly roasting one's children in front of one?
How about poking out the eye's of one's relatives right in front of one?
How about raping all the female family members in front of one another and then shooting them in the vaginas?
Well?!!
That's the kind of stuff which is happening in Africa right now and you talk about infidelity?!!!!

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Dec 12, 2007 at 2:25 PM

Could it be that you're ugly?

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