i befriended a soldier in Irag against my husbands wishes. i told him i was married and we continued to pen pal back and forth anyway..after one letter of some bad things that happened to him..i got a private e-mail that my hubby knew nothing bout..and sent a pic of me holding a teddy bear with his name on it..he was happy but said he would be happier and asked for some naughty pics of me so that's what i did along with so very sexy texts..i learned how to skype and was naked when we did...on his return home..i arranged for my sister to babysit my children..and met him upon his return home...his mom and dad was waiting there also and they were aware that i was her sons pen=pal but they didn't know i was married though(thnk god)he never told them that.after spending a good while at his moms home..his dad smiled and told us to go and have some fun..with a big grin...and thats what we did..we had the most lust/hot/wild sex ever...i still see him every now and then..for a bootie call..i have no regrets and hubby is none he wiser