Geesh, if you want a new lover just buy a different dildo! Seriously, have you TOLD him in plain english that if he does not go see a Doctor that you will find someone to meet your needs? Maybe if he realizes that you are dead serious about finding someone else then he'll get off his butt and go get the little blue pill.
masturbation has lost it's thrill, a new dildo isn't going to do it. No amount of straight talk has worked. Told him that i was going to find myself a lover so he doesn't have to stress (his favorite excuse) over having sex. He said he thought I was joking. I told him I was given really good advice by a friend...hang tight and then divorce him when our house is completed (a year's time tops) and sue him for divorce and get the house. He laughed. Told him no I was serious, so he gave sex an attempt, it was a (in the words of Phyllis Diller) a "soft-on" at best, he got off in about 5 minutes(being generous here), i hadn't even gotten started yet, I asked him, in a flirty way, to finish me some other way, he flat out said no and rolled over to go to sleep. Spoke to him the next morning about it, his response: You had sex and you're still not happy. I told him it just left me frustrated it made it worse. I suggested a nice romantic evening leading up to the big finally and suggested a few different nights, he checked the Red Sox Schedule and said he'd rather watch baseball then have sex. Other then the lack of sex he's really a loveable guy. But that only goes so far, I think its time to either cheat or leave him. Since my paycheck is low and I'm in the process of a job search I think I'll just cheat.
Keep us updated. :)
Consider the possibility that he might be gay. He may have been trying to convince himself otherwise by attempting a heterosexual relationship. He may not even realize it himself. Do you have any evidence that he relieves his sex urges any other way such as masturbation or another woman?
Here's one way to find out more about him: Watch him in a situation where people come into the room. If an attractive woman walks in, most guys will take a look, even if it's a sneaked glance. If he doesn't look at women but he looks at men, consider the fact that he may be gay. If he doesn't look at either men or women, he might have suppressed sexual desire. Unfortunately, sometimes this might mean a serious medical condition. In any case, he should have a good medical checkup.
Good luck honey!
yes it is cheating no matter the circumstances.. that's if you have any morals... put that energy to some good use
no not gay. stress issues that he refuses to address. in his eyes impotence is not worthy of meds. anything other than illness is worthy of meds, his opinion.
when a woman cuts off her husband from sex she's a bitch and she should expect him to cheat. She is expected to preform even if she is not in the mood, it makes her a good wife.
when a woman is cut off by her man and he's accused of being gay or sick and woman is expected to be understanding and faithful. If he just plain can't perform but won't get viagra and she decides or wonders if she turn elsewhere she's got no morals and a slut. Double standard if you ask me.
He can do "other" things to please her sexually and she would be happy because self masterbation looses its thrill. If he does not want to do those things, he should expect her to cheat.
Sex doesn't always last forever, for whatever reasons...you sound like a real selfish bitch threatening to take his money and house and divorcing him over it. Have you ever considered that it is a medical issue and he is far too embarrassed to talk openly with a doctor about it. This guys best hope is for you to divorce him, hopefully he can keep the house and get laid with his next girl friend.
Is it really cheating if I find my wife unattractive and she won't exercise to improve her shape and I go off and have my way with some young college girl? I didn't think so. Keep your legs open for your husband you whore
