Maybe if you watch, and/or have them video taped, you can get the thrill of seeing it happen without it actually needing to happen.
That was our original thought, having me watch. It's not as easy as you might think finding someonewho will let that happen. I mean, it's hard for me to understand why it does what it does for us. Imagine what a third party might be thinking. "Are these two people crazy?" We are not "out there" if you know what i mean. Our friends would never in a million years expect us to be doing this. But we sure enjoyed it. Any other suggestions? I'm all ears.
You can watch without being there ... be in a closet, or be there after the fact by seeing it all on tape. You might need to catch several acts on tape in order for you to get enough to keep the fantasies going, but my thought is, she won't mind! If you're behind the camera, then you can have the best of both worlds - as long as you can keep the camera still while you're holding your Johnson at the same time.
I'm back.I'm the original "My Wife" confessor. I know for a fact that my wife enjoyed being with another man and telling me about it. She told me how exciting it was and we even wrote each other letters about it, reassurung each other that nothing would happen to our marriage. Circumstances made it impossible to be with the man that she had been seeing anymore. Since it stopped, we haven't talked about it, but I think about it a lot. I'm wondering if she does. I'm wondering if I should tell her I'm thinking about it and ask her if she could find someone, or I could find someone for her, to try this again.Our relationship was great while it was going on. It' still good, but that added something to it. Am I pushing my luck with this?
Two thoughts on this:
1. I wish my husband would give me his blessing to have a wild affair with some young, well-hung stud.
2. Do you think if you encourage her to do this again that she'll want to keep doing it, that the rush will be addictive to her?
I have cheated on my husband more times than I can count, and it gets more and more exciting each time I do it. I keep searching for a sexual experience more incredible than the one before.
Good points. We set down some hard and fast rules that we promised each other we would adhere to. My blessing and her not keeping anything from me are a couple of them. I obviously trust her. This is so new to us. I really wish that I didn't feel the way I do, but what can I say? I love thinking and hearing about it. I truly believe that I could change my mind about it and she would be OK. I think our love is strong enough. I just want it to continue fir a while longer. Should I tell her?
I think you should tell her, absolutely. This is a new person, by the way. I have had fantasies like this of my own, only in mine, I am the third person. I am young, good looking, and there seems to be no way to find a couple to experiment with. I have had many succesful, yet somehow unfulfilling relationships with pretty young girls. By young, I mean around 22-25, as i am in the same age group. However, I know of a couple that swings, but how do you approach them? You know what I mean? I have seen his wife (they both participate, I have heard) looking at me in a "more than casual" way. It arouses me to say the least. And as a matter of fact, I have also caught him doing the same! I am flattered! I would prefer to keep this type of thing a secret, as I feel it should be only between the parties involved. But we all have some mutual friends, and I would hate to become that weird guy who misinterpreted some glances and made a pass at a married couple who is friends with his friends! Maybe I should bring this up as a whole new subject...
Could I be of assistance!!!!!
Why the fuck are you encouraging ur wife 2 cheat on u?
