When I get good at lucid dreaming, one imaginary desire I want to act out is turning into a werewolf and raping and eating women in my dreams - maybe some I've seen in my daily life.

On the other hand I also would want to be embraced by a fantasy woman that I might feel unashamed of crying and being vulnerable in front of - but I have a hard time seeing myself being comfortable doing this with women I've seen in my daily life.

I imagine that getting better at this skill might help me resolve my confusion surrounding connecting with people, but I'm not disciplined enough. I'll probably experiment with legal dreaming drugs like Calea Zacatechichi or Silene Capensis.

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by Anonymous on Jun 19, 2009 at 5:29 PM

Connecting with people, especially women, best works out in real life, rather than just dreaming about it. So concentrate on your social skills rather than your dream skills to meet chicks. Just don't rape and eat them.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jun 20, 2009 at 8:28 AM

Well, at least don't rape them . . .

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jun 20, 2009 at 2:42 PM

really don't know what you hope to achieve by this. what a great way to waste your life.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jun 20, 2009 at 6:44 PM

Finding intimacy and enjoyable social experiences in dreams is easy if you know how to lucid dream well. I hope that I learn something that might improve my social perspective in reality.

I feel really confused about what I want in relationships and its hard for me to enjoy social interactions or know what type of interaction I'm looking for and how to do that.

I feel muddled in conveying anything. I feel distant in my social engagements.

I have tried some lines and plans for social exposure, but have felt disillusioned with them or just too afraid to follow through.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jun 22, 2009 at 7:38 PM

wanting this degree of control is never gunna be useful in social relationships, sounds like you need some one to take you out of yourself. All you can really do in dreams reprocess thing's you've already experienced and get more and more withdrawn.

if we could have all that we want in dreams why would anyone bother to further themselves or achieve anything?

dreams can be highly illogical; you cant use them as evidence for what experience you'd want, they are usually far more complicated then that.... or sometimes purely random.

just get out there and live it.

now stop playing so much warcraft or whatever it is putting these ideas of werewolves in your head.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jun 23, 2009 at 7:26 PM

"wanting this degree of control is never gunna be useful in social relationships,"

What 'degree of control' are you talking about? If I can learn how to lucid dream I'll try to have some control over what dream experiences I'll have with women so it will be more emotionally fulfilling, but I'm not necessarily controlling the woman. Engaging with enjoyable moods in dreams may make it easier for me to recognize the potential for it life.

"sounds like you need some one to take you out of yourself."

Definitely agree.

"All you can really do in dreams reprocess thing's you've already experienced"

I disagree. I've had vivid sex in dreams and am a virgin. I have had my dick cut off and been shot which has not happened to me IRL. Though there is a large influence from experiences IRL.

"if we could have all that we want in dreams why would anyone bother to further themselves or achieve anything?"

You can manipulate your dreams in lucid dreams (with determined practice) - dreams in which you realize that you are dreaming and are more conscious and focused.

"dreams can be highly illogical; you cant use them as evidence for what experience you'd want, they are usually far more complicated then that.... or sometimes purely random."

Again I'm referring to lucid dreams not normal dreams (although you don't need to manipulate dreams just because your lucid). If I act out a fantasy in a lucid dream that I've thought about IRL, I know that I want that experience.

"just get out there and live it."

Doing that has been difficult and confusing in my experience. I guess I'm paralyzed because I'm uncertain about the approach to take to gain social skills and social enjoyment.

"now stop playing so much warcraft or whatever it is putting these ideas of werewolves in your head."

Horror movies and books. I don't engage with them that often.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Aug 6, 2009 at 11:32 AM

you think waaaay too much.....join a friggin softball team.

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