My boyfriend and I have been together for just over 4 years now, he is 28 and I am 22 we had a whirlwind romance and were living together within three months of meeting! I love him more than life but after the 1st year of our relationship his sex drive dwindled down to nothing pretty much overnight, we were going months at a time without sex, I tryed absolutely everything I could think of to remedy this..... I tryed massage, baths, candles, romantic meals, dressing up, suggesting we watch porn together, changing our diet for the better, talking shouting and crying! I've tryed to talk to him about it countless times, even having conversations going through the night about it, I've always strived to keep the lines of communication open but talking hasn't worked, I know it's not a medical problem and I know he has a hard time at work and how stress can drastically affect sex drive, I try to take the stress away when he's home, I cook him good healthy food, I suggest early nights and try to relax him but nothing works! I don't pressure him at all I don't even mention sex incase he does feel pressured I know he loves me because he tells me several times a day, he compliments me, talks about our future together and I've even caught him looking at engagement rings. I'm no super model but I have a good body and thought I was moderately attractive. But he just doesn't seem to be attracted to me anymore, i has such a high sex drive and would do anything just to please him! Literally anything! I'vw wondered if he has some kind of fetish that he hasn't told me about but he insists he doesn't! What more can I do!? Is this normal for guys?