My wife is one of those stereotypical women who uses any excuse she can to avoid sex, everything from she's too tired to she doesn't want to mess up her hair. She's been like this since our wedding night, which means in 24 years of marriage she's only put out around 200 times. Because she's been like that, I've had several affairs over the years. One lasted for about 12 years, in which not only did I have a mistress, but 2 girlfriends during that time that didn't know about the others. Since the affair ended, I've slept with two more women and I've also have had sex with 4 men.