I need some advice.
My wife, who I have known to be a prude mostly our entire lives, which is since we were 16, dating for 6 years and married for 22. And the sex has always been vanilla, well it was a little more fun when we were young and before kids. But certainly since its been occasional sex, mostly missionary or doggie style which she does like it's a chore. She want do oral on me unless we have just showered or are n the tub. She rarely if ever allows me to go down on her, like once or twice a yeA when she is really in the mood. And no foreplay to speak of, she would ather just fuck. She hates cum anywhere, on her, in her, won't taste it, etc. and we rarely use toys, sometimes like 6 times a year she lets me used a vibe on her when fucking to help her actually orgasm. She never orgasms on her own any more, when we were young she would occasionally when she was on top, butane never does that any more. She also prefers it dark. Needless to say she has a lot of issues andhas guys and really does not enjoy sex much.
She has also caught me masturbating a few times and rally scolds me for it saying its immoral and like cheating in her, etc. well a few weeks ago she suddenly let it alp one night in a joking way that she masturbates with the vibrator when me and the kids are gone. I was stunned, she had flatly said she never masturbated for along time and said she only started whe. She was pregnant as she was too horny, from hormones. But after she had said she neve did any more. And I had no reasons believe that was untrue. Now about 2 years ago I noticed she started keep the vibe in her aide drawer, it used to be hidden away. I didn't think much about it really.
But after she let it all that she used it I had to know more, but she wold to talk about it after that slip up. So I took it upon myself to find out more. With the kids back n school the last 4 weeks and me gone to work I started making surei knew the exact placement of the vibe in th sewer each day and checked and sure enough I found it moved about half of the days by e time I got home form work. So next I got a secret black box video recording hidden cam and put it in the tv cabinet with other electronic boxes, she would never know what it was.
On video now over the last two weeks I have seen her get the vibe midday about half of the days, of the drawer and then she goes I into the bathroom for 3 to 5 minutes and then puts it back. Unfortunately I can't put the black box in the bathroom, it would stand out there.
I really want t watch her masturbate, I just figured she would do it in the bed where the camera can see. I could spend some more money and get a tiny cam could hide n the bathroom vent.
But I'm also thinking I could jus confront her, not mean or accusatory, just saying I want to now more and I know how,often she is masturbatng from observation f the vibes placement, I would to mention the cam.
So, should I ask her to tell me and be frank, I don't need all the details but I'm curious. And why she is doing it now after all these years, just hitting peek in 40s maybe, but why won't she do anything lore with me. I mean. Realize it's just a release mostly like for me and is easy. Or should I go ahead and just get the other cam and hide it and try to see her only for my purposes and keep it a secret?
My wife, who I have known to be a prude mostly our entire lives, which is since we were 16, dating for 6 years and married for 22. And the sex has always been vanilla, well it was a little more fun when we were young and before kids. But certainly since its been occasional sex, mostly missionary or doggie style which she does like it's a chore. She want do oral on me unless we have just showered or are n the tub. She rarely if ever allows me to go down on her, like once or twice a yeA when she is really in the mood. And no foreplay to speak of, she would ather just fuck. She hates cum anywhere, on her, in her, won't taste it, etc. and we rarely use toys, sometimes like 6 times a year she lets me used a vibe on her when fucking to help her actually orgasm. She never orgasms on her own any more, when we were young she would occasionally when she was on top, butane never does that any more. She also prefers it dark. Needless to say she has a lot of issues andhas guys and really does not enjoy sex much.
She has also caught me masturbating a few times and rally scolds me for it saying its immoral and like cheating in her, etc. well a few weeks ago she suddenly let it alp one night in a joking way that she masturbates with the vibrator when me and the kids are gone. I was stunned, she had flatly said she never masturbated for along time and said she only started whe. She was pregnant as she was too horny, from hormones. But after she had said she neve did any more. And I had no reasons believe that was untrue. Now about 2 years ago I noticed she started keep the vibe in her aide drawer, it used to be hidden away. I didn't think much about it really.
But after she let it all that she used it I had to know more, but she wold to talk about it after that slip up. So I took it upon myself to find out more. With the kids back n school the last 4 weeks and me gone to work I started making surei knew the exact placement of the vibe in th sewer each day and checked and sure enough I found it moved about half of the days by e time I got home form work. So next I got a secret black box video recording hidden cam and put it in the tv cabinet with other electronic boxes, she would never know what it was.
On video now over the last two weeks I have seen her get the vibe midday about half of the days, of the drawer and then she goes I into the bathroom for 3 to 5 minutes and then puts it back. Unfortunately I can't put the black box in the bathroom, it would stand out there.
I really want t watch her masturbate, I just figured she would do it in the bed where the camera can see. I could spend some more money and get a tiny cam could hide n the bathroom vent.
But I'm also thinking I could jus confront her, not mean or accusatory, just saying I want to now more and I know how,often she is masturbatng from observation f the vibes placement, I would to mention the cam.
So, should I ask her to tell me and be frank, I don't need all the details but I'm curious. And why she is doing it now after all these years, just hitting peek in 40s maybe, but why won't she do anything lore with me. I mean. Realize it's just a release mostly like for me and is easy. Or should I go ahead and just get the other cam and hide it and try to see her only for my purposes and keep it a secret?
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