I love my wife, but have not been sexually satisfied by her in years. I try to convience myself that I am happy sexually, but I am just bored. I have cheated on her 3 times now, once with her best friend, once with my boss and a local girl I know from the bar. I do not know what to do. I keep telling myself I wont cheat anymore, but I just cannot seem to stop thinking about other women. I need help I really do love my wife and our family we've built together.