I have had fantasies of swinging as of late, but I am single looking to be the third for a couple. I am young, fairly good looking, and there seems to be no way to find a couple to experiment with. I have had many succesful, yet somehow unfulfilling relationships with pretty young girls. By young, I mean around 22-25, as i am in the same age group. However, I know of a couple that swings, but how do you approach them? You know what I mean? I have seen his wife (they both participate, I have heard) looking at me in a "more than casual" way at the yearly friends and family get-togethers. It arouses me to say the least. And as a matter of fact, I have also caught him (husband) doing the same! I am flattered! I would prefer to keep this type of thing a secret, as I feel it should be only between the parties involved. But we all have some mutual friends, and I would hate to become that weird guy who misinterpreted some glances and made a pass at a married couple who is friends with his friends! It arouses me to think of joining a couple, as a "booty call" kind of situation. I am so flexible as to go both ways, if all parties are willing. It sounds like a lot of fun! Ideas?