I have been dating for sometime now and I have been experiencing this a lot lately, I like White male and have only dated White men. But this has happen to me twice, two of my past boyfriends have left for some short Filipino guy, who is basically a blonde girl wanna be. I hate being racist in anyway but this has caused me so much anger in my life, I mean I am so afraid to date now a days and I avoid having any contact with any gay Asian male. The interesting part and I think is what has really got my attention is that both of the guy's who my exes have left for were not attractive to me in anyway, I mean I don't think they would be consider attractive to most of the public, but hey everyone has their taste as weird as it is. Both of the guys were short, dark( not golden tan, or at least Hispanic looking) but dark in not a beautiful African glowing skin, but red dark skin with some weird type of acne or skin rash that a lot of Filipinos get. They were both in Fashion school, and they thought they were the sh*t, I mean I don't consider my self to be in their level. I am 6'1, fit, light tan olive skin, light brown eyes, brunette. Both of my last bf's were blonde,one was 6'2, the other was 6'4. I just don't get why would they leave me for a 5'2/ 5'5 troll. My theory is that is a fetish, I mean if I was to date an Asian I would much rather date a Chinese, Korean, or Japanese than a South East Asian. My theory is that is a fetish, and also the area where I live has something to do with the effect, btw I live in San Francisco, Ca. Which many will say it's little Manila USA. To end this confession last week I was in Westfield in downtown San Francisco and I saw about two or four couples, one a tall good looking white male dating a South East Asian which was not as attractive as its partner. I think I am crazy and am getting therapy but I just needed to get this out of my system.