I feel selfish because I can't deal with the issue my family is going through right now. It sucks like all hell to see your mother cry three days in a row but when it wasn't something you did and right now there is NOTHING ANYBODY CAN DO...how do I deal? Not to mention this is a majorly stressful time in MY life. I don't know how to be there for all of them and definitely don't know how to handle it myself. I am scared and angry and lost.