Married for 9 years to the same man. We have two kids. He has a very big family. His sister's husband - VERY attractive, solid body, sweet, funny, ambitious, and we have a lot in common. Finally got to drink together which may not have been good. Both drank ourselves silly. Nothing physical happened, but we wound up texting each other. Nothing dirty, surprisingly. But nothing you'd want your spouse to find, either. We've been talking all day and man, oh MAN, would I love to do some very, very bad things with him. Too bad we are both already spoken for and he is a "good" guy so... ugh. Some day. We're still young. Would it be so terrible if we slept together once?!