I understand what your saying, Firstly, looking at these fantisies are simply actors, and the way they present sex is false when it comes to relationships.
It does create interest in the mind as to how one can increase sexual activity and make it fun but in reality it makes us objects rather than couples in love,
it will hurt your GF if the porn becomes your sexual pleasure and it substitues the sex with your GF. I use porn a lot and im also feeling the same i watch thinking i wish my partner would do these acts but then i think she does what pleases me because its her.
I think masterbation away from the partner is suited if your imagining to be with your partner or are lookin at your partner, and that your partner knows it, mine does, but it takes honesty. Lokking at porn this way is no different than having an affair, as it meansyour looking out side your relationship fr satisfaction.
As a marriage counsellor, my suggestion is to discuss what ways you wish to explore sex with your gf, and be open to te ay she too wishes to explore, but remember that ANALsex is in fact dangerous and can create internal health concerns. but also understand that sex is an intimacy tool, and if sex is the only feature in the relationship the it has a very low servival rate, but if sex is thetool to bring you together then accept each other, and be content, but becare that you dnt allow the porn to disastify your real sex life as porn acts are not realtionship builders.
Other will laugh and moke this advice, but as i said i am amarriage and relationship counsillor and i work with couples all the time who also struggle in this area. Changethe mindset and ask your gf to pose nude for you if she is comfortable so tat when you are in the "mood" and she is absent or not in the "mood" you are able to still satisify your needs within the relationship boundries.
be mindful she too will have her ow internal desires and fantasies, but as a wome she will hide them better, open up to here and see how you both can improve....
Hope this helps
I understand what your saying, Firstly, looking at these fantisies are simply actors, and the way they present sex is false when it comes to relationships.
It does create interest in the mind as to how one can increase sexual activity and make it fun but in reality it makes us objects rather than couples in love,
it will hurt your GF if the porn becomes your sexual pleasure and it substitues the sex with your GF.
I think masterbation away from the partner is suited if your imagining to be with your partner or are lookin at your partner, and that your partner knows it, mine does, but it takes honesty. Lokking at porn this way is no different than having an affair, as it meansyour looking out side your relationship fr satisfaction.
As a marriage counsellor, my suggestion is to discuss what ways you wish to explore sex with your gf, and be open to te ay she too wishes to explore, but remember that ANALsex is in fact dangerous and can create internal health concerns. but also understand that sex is an intimacy tool, and if sex is the only feature in the relationship the it has a very low servival rate, but if sex is thetool to bring you together then accept each other, and be content, but becare that you dnt allow the porn to disastify your real sex life as porn acts are not realtionship builders.
Other will laugh and moke this advice, but as i said i am amarriage and relationship counsillor and i work with couples all the time who also struggle in this area. Changethe mindset and ask your gf to pose nude for you if she is comfortable so tat when you are in the "mood" and she is absent or not in the "mood" you are able to still satisify your needs within the relationship boundries.
be mindful she too will have her ow internal desires and fantasies, but as a wome she will hide them better, open up to here and see how you both can improve....
Hope this helps
Looking at porn is not cheating. But if you are getting off to gay porn and tranny porn, then maybe you should not marry a woman unless she doesn't care, or might even help you persue that.
