This might be more of a rant then a confession. I'll start by saying I love my wife very much! But, in at my wits end with our sex life at least what their is of it. We are so out of sync after 16 years of marriage I don't know if its even worth it any more! It is a full time job worrying about weather we are going to have sex any time soon or not. When we do have sex most times it is great. I knew things were going down hill after we gor back from a adult vacation and all the sexy bras and panties ebded up in the back of the closet, that was a year and a half ago! This weekend= Fri "I'm getting sick" (she has been "sick" tha last 3 fridays, Sat= hit the bed in a coma and snoring, Sun= the old "I have a headache". I think it would honestly be less work picking up some chick at a bar, and I haven't ever had to do that. He excuse is "most couples only have sex once a week!" We'll, most couples these days are getting divorced! You want to be like most couples? Hess what it comes down to is, my confession is ill be beating off like a kid who just found his first Playboy! :(