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I'm a 34 year old woman. I've been married for 16 years and I have had 2 children in that time. In my entire life, I've never been able to orgasm when having sex with a man. I've never even felt mildly aroused when having sex.

I was always taught that women were supposed to be with men, whether we enjoyed sex with them or not. Lately though, I've started thinking about women. A few days ago I was the horniest I can remember ever being, watching a poledancer in a movie. So I started looking at pictures and videos online, and comparing pictures of men to pictures of women. I can only get a reaction when I'm looking at the women.

So I'm pretty sure at this point that I'm a lesbian, but, what do I do? What about my husband and children? I don't want to get a divorce, but now that I know what actually turns me on how can I just ignore it? Should I... see someone else without telling him?

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# 13065 - by Anonymous / January 3, 2013
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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jan 4, 2013 at 10:40 PM

Just tell him. Maybe he'll share a woman with you. Most men would love to.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jan 5, 2013 at 3:35 AM

I could try. The problem is though that as good a person as he is, homosexuality, or really anything other than heterosexuality is disgusting to him regardless which gender it is. He still thinks they should have the same rights as everyone else and supports them publicly (we don't personally know anyone who is homosexual, bisexual or whathaveyou,) but I don't think he'd like seeing me with another woman.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jan 5, 2013 at 4:35 PM

Live a lie or be happy. One will make you miserable your entire life, one will give you short term greif for long term gain.

Ultimately sexual encounters are important and if you feel this may be for you then take the plunge and leave your husband.

You might want to "test the water" and fuck a lady first to see if you actually like it.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jan 5, 2013 at 9:11 PM

You should watch the movie "Sex Monsters". A real film, not porn.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jan 5, 2013 at 9:14 PM

How should I go about finding another woman willing to have sex with me, anyway? Or.. should I pay a prostitute? I don't know where to start looking for someone.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jan 6, 2013 at 12:59 AM

Well, a prostitute is probably the worst idea in the world. Why would you even risk all the diseases and such you will get from one? Don't you want to live for your kids?
You look for a woman, the same way you would look for a man. Maybe you should start out with a friend who might also be a little curious, or have a girls night and get a little tipsy and flirty. See where it leads you. Again though, cheating is never the answer. I always say, better to break up with someone and then do what you want, than to cheat. You can't have the best of both worlds and be happy. And your husband might like you with another woman, even though you say he dislikes homo/bi. In the end he is a male. Maybe if you said he could have another woman too. A marriage without telling eachother their desires is a bad marriage.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jan 7, 2013 at 3:54 PM

I definitely don't want to put my kids through a divorce. But, I have to know if this is what's right for me. I hinted at bringing another woman into it and he didn't seem to like the idea. I'm going to try to find someone online that I can meet without either of us revealing our identity.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jan 8, 2013 at 7:08 AM

Best way to meet a woman is thru charooms or answering ads like on craigslist or ashley madison. Chat rooms are cool too just anyw general chat room usually has a ladies only room as you can talk to a woman about your desires and find one that is the right pace for you and that you will feel comfortable with. Thats how i started meeting men and so glad i did. Its a part of me that should be enjoyed and it sounds the same with you. Go out there and live your life !

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jan 22, 2013 at 5:32 AM

Ok, I managed to meet up with someone. I talked to her anonymously over the internet and we agreed to meet in a hotel room with the lights out so we couldn't see each other's faces, and no talking.


We had to agree on what in general we'd be doing before we met up, since we wouldn't be talking during. So, she brought some dildos and we agreed she was going to sort of show me around since I've never been with a woman before. She was a lot younger than me, and more in shape. We spent the whole night exploring, I had an orgasm for once while she was eating me, and hers tasted sweeter than I expected.

We kept the lights out the whole night so it was hard to see, which lead to a few embarrassing situations involving dildos and orifices which are close together. The only thing that really confused me was that she kept putting her feet on my face/in my mouth. At first I was sort of put off because they're feet, but hers were clean, smooth. By the end of the night I was starting to enjoy this quirk of hers.

He doesn't know about it, and I have no intention of telling him, at least not until our children are older. I won't do this very often, but I'll do it again at some point. There's no way I can just ignore it now.

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