I used to masturbate a lot, at least once a day. I would masturbate, and then I was never in the mood when my husband wanted sex. He refuses to masturbate anyway, so he wasn't getting off at all.

One day he said he wanted a divorce. I didn't want a divorce, so I decided to do a complete overhaul on my life. I asked him what he wanted me to do so he wouldn't divorce me and he gave me some rules. Specifically as it relates here: I will not masturbate period, ever. I will have sex with him whenever he wants whether I am in the mood or not, and my only focus during sex is to make him orgasm. My orgasm is not only secondary, it's a distraction that I must avoid. If he wants to do anything kinky, I have to go along with it. If he wants to have sex with someone else, he can and if he wants me to have sex with someone else I must. Before I would never give him a blowjob under any circumstances because I hate the taste, now I must give him at least one blowjob a day unless he decides otherwise. Before I wouldn't let him fuck my ass in a million years, now he has full access whenever/wherever he wants. As long as we're alone I must be nude, and when we go out I must wear skimpier clothing.

He by no means forced me into this, he legitimately wanted a divorce and agreeing to this was the only way that he would reconsider. I honestly enjoy our relationship more now, I'm waiting for him to wake up as I type this.