My husband and I visit a local "Gentlemen's club" every week or so. I believe this one is unique because they allow women, but with the rule that women are only allowed in if we are completely nude the whole time we're there. I had assumed this would mean less women would be there, but there were actually more women there than men. We aren't really required to sit or act a certain way, other than if what we're doing is annoying/harming someone else. Sex is allowed as long as it isn't obnoxious, and "within reason" female guests are asked to allow male guests to touch them. Basically "within reason" means "as much as you feel comfortable with."