Straight Female / 36
I've been with more guys than I've had orgasms, and I've only been with like 3 different guys.
what's the problem?
Sounds like you have been with takers and not givers. Older guys take their time during sex -- young guys are all about "busting a nut" --- you need to find you a gentleman that will explore your body and make it his quest to bring you to orgasm with his tongue first ---- Good luck!
I don't see a problem either. Women don't need to cum anyway so if you've only done it like twice who gives a fuck? If you can't cum before he does tough shit, it's not about you.