I'm married to a man almost 10 years younger than me. I have him locked in chastity almost constantly. I haven't let him cum for the past 3 years, but I've let him out of his cage every day so I can edge him and make sure his dick and balls are clean. Meanwhile, I'm with one or more of my 3 girlfriends on any given night, usually having sex in my bed while he sleeps on the couch. Sometimes we get him involved though. I had Tracy sit on his back one night while I fucked her with a strap on. Lauren is bisexual so sometimes I let him eat her out, or she'll keep him on edge for a lot longer than I usually bother.

He doesn't always like to still be in chastity. When he's in one of those moods he'll usually throw a bit of a fit, after which he'll calm down and I'll punish him for his outburst. Usually I'll punish him by spanking him or smacking his balls around, standing on them in heels, or anything else I can think of that would provide punishment outside of his chastity (which is indefinite for the foreseeable future. I have no intentions of releasing him, but it still might happen.) Then I'll hold onto him for a little while before I have him do something to make it up to me. Usually something humiliating, or even something as simple as having him in front of me as a footrest for a while.

So basically, I have no sexual interest in him, he hasn't cum in 3 years and unless I change my mind or something else happens he probably won't in the future (though don't tell him that), and I have lots and lots of spectacular orgasms with my 3 female lovers on what is technically his bed. Life is good.