I have been with my fiance for 5 years. I love him more than anything, and we are perfect for each other in every way except one, our sex life is terrible. This is due to the fact that he cannot last longer than 20 seconds, and I take 30 minutes to finish. In the 5 years we've been together I have not had an orgasm while being intimate with him. I have suggested repeatedly that he see a doctor to see if it is medical, but he adamantly refuses. Today, I slept with someone else. The release was amazing. I feel less stressed, and I feel like I can concentrate. I do not regret it one bit. I have a very high sex drive and went 5 years without this release. I am grateful that I did it.