I'm not sure if I'm a lesbian or bisexual or whatever, as far as I know I'm straight but I've never really been with anyone. I mention this for a reason.

I think one of my friends might be in love with me. She does things like holding a hug a little too long, staring at me then quickly looking away when I look back.. She seems slightly uncomfortable when we're in a changing room or gym shower together, but she's usually the one to put herself in the position where she's there with me anyway, various things like those.

I try to hang out with a group of my friends as often as possible, and for as long as I can remember no matter what she's dropped whatever she was doing to join us. I don't remember ever having a disagreement with her that wasn't quickly resolved. She's probably the best of my friends, even if I haven't known her as long as everyone else (though still for like 4 years.)

I don't really know what to do, if anything. Do I try to find out if she's in love with me?? What then?? Should I give it a shot?? I mean, I haven't been in a relationship with many people but the few have all been guys. It has been a while since I've been in a relationship, so it might be nice if it happens that way.

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by Anonymous on May 27, 2013 at 5:09 AM

ah, eating pussy, you know you'd like to venture into it, and that is awesome. go clothes shopping, or have her over at your place. get an article of clothing for the top of which a bra isn't required. As you are trying it on, hesitate and right in front of her, feel one of your tits, then the other, then both at the same time with a confused look on your face. she may notice and ask what's wrong. tell her your tits feel different and ask her to feel them and tell you what she thinks. As she is caressing your tits let her know how soft her hands feel on them and see where it goes. Let us know will ya.

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by Anonymous on May 27, 2013 at 6:08 AM

I agree with that comment

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by Anonymous on May 27, 2013 at 1:55 PM

Yeah, let us know. I am in a simular situation, only I am only 16 and a virgin but I do have fantacies about other girls. I have a couple friends that are simular and I sometimes wonder if I should take the lead but then I'm afraid if they aren't as I hope, what will they think of me?

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by Anonymous on May 28, 2013 at 3:32 AM

The best thing you can do is just let nature take its course. You can help it along by having some private time together to talk and see whether the signals you think you are seeing are getting any clearer. Turn the conversation toward sex. You'll know soon enough.

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by Anonymous on May 30, 2013 at 6:16 PM

Ok so here's what's happened. Somehow, I can't exactly remember how we arrived at this but we agreed to meet up at her apartment to hang out and watch some movies. As usual she stuck near me practically the whole time. I took a restroom break, and when I was finished in the restroom I decided to take a quick look in her room (I know, I'm a horrible person but I wanted to see if there was anything I could find out without risking our friendship by asking directly.)

I didn't look too deeply because I already felt like I was violating her privacy. I also didn't find much, if anything, until I spotted something odd just under the edge of her bed. It looked like a bit of leather underwear with a ring on the front of it, and it didn't take me too long to realize what it was.

Somehow that night we came to the conclusion that we should just stay over for the night, probably because one of us had already fallen asleep on the couch. Being a small apartment, the first few people to sleep took up any usable space in the living room. I had resolved to stay up as long as possible, and of course she wanted to stay up since I was still up. By the time I was ready to sleep the only space left was in her room.

With some noticeable difficulty, she offered that we could both sleep in the same bed. I declined because I wasn't sure about everything yet, and she seemed relieved (although slightly disappointed.) She asked if I wanted to take the bed, and I said the floor was fine, so she laid out a blanked and pillow for me.

As we were laying there, part of me said fuck off to the part of me that wanted to be covert. So as we were both laying there, I asked her simply "Are you in love with me?", and after a bit of silence where I thought she might have already been asleep, she said yes.

The next morning we didn't mention it. Everything went as normal, after some breakfast and chat everyone went home. If anyone's still following this, I would like to know how I should respond, or if I should wait for her to do something. And whether I should make sure it happens in private or if it would be appropriate to be open about whatever happens with my other friends. I don't believe they would have any issues with her being a lesbian if they don't already know, and I don't believe they would have any issues if we were to become a couple either.

I'll make another post for this as well.

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