I am not a professional but have had some counciling courses in college and have always been trusted and easdy to talk with. Over the years from college days to now I have listened to many ladies and some men, almost all married, tell me their difficulties. I usually don't give advice, just talk. This has been effective in helping several work out their problems. It has also been helpful in getting me laid. I've had some sexual activity with over twenty ladies I have "counseled". Most have been one time events but some have been on multiple occassions.
One lady that I helped through a divorce and remarriage, doesn't believe in intercourse outside of marriage but oral is different. Fore over ten years she has been giving me blow jobs several times a year when it is convienient. Only a couple of times have I ever initiated the act. She is the aggressor. I have never touched her naked pussy, though she let's me nurse her ample breast. Sometimes she calls for an "appointment" (her husband knows I council her - I've also counciled with him). Other times have been in public venues where she will pull me to a secluded area and drop down and give me an oral quickie, swallow my cum (she really likes it), and then goes basck to what she was doing.
Ladies, my door is open for you to tell me your troubles. There's no charge unless you want to give a donation.