This is embarrassing and sucks. I can't cum. This has been going on for a couple years. Masturbating doesn't get me off. I've had 2 relationships end now because the girls got frustrated nothing they did could make me orgasm. I understand how they felt and why but it still sucks. We would just have have sex until it started to hurt too much for the both of us, usually they having orgasmed multiple times and frustrated from not at all. Is there anyone else who has this problem and can help??