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Straight Female / 24

Why are men the way they are?? I read this site and say wtf?? Guys fucking suck. either that or theres something wrong with me. Im pretty, I have a nice body. not spectacular but i have a nice ass and my boobs are small but cute. i love sex and will do almost anything to please my guy except share him. I have a daughter but she spends half her time with her dad. I have a full time job and pay my own way so why does it have to be so so hard??

why do guys act interested and text me how much they want to be with me, take me out and when i dont fuck them the first night they say that i misunderstood there intentions?? or i date a guy who is nice and cares about me but has no idea how to have sex. its all about him, or his dick is fucking tiny, or he can't get it up cuz of some fucking trauma he had and hes looking for a new mom. wtf

The one guy who is perfect, sexy, makes sex fun, make me feel great all the time, ended up getting bored and started leaving me at home alone while hes off getting shitty w/his friends ALL THE TIME! then shows up at fucking 3am looking for blow jobs or to try to talk me into letting him fuck me in the ass.

I've been dating this perfect man for a year and a half. my daughter loves him. i love him. he's 30, good looking, incredible in bed. hes the only guy whose made sex fun for me all the time! i love having sex with him. i used to just have to lie there while loser guys pumped their cum in me not giving a shit as long as my legs were spread. my bf actually tries to please me!!!!! he taught me 69, long oral, quickies every where! when we first started dating he practucally worshipped me. of course i started talking about mariage and settling down and hat was that. now he doesn't want to have kids and other than the great sex hes distant all the time and it seems like i only see him when hes horny. i cry all the time. fuck, fuck, fuck

god damn it life sucks!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Im sorry for the rant but i was reading this site and felt like getting my frustrations off my chest.

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# 15067 - by Anonymous / June 6, 2013

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by Anonymous on Jun 6, 2013 at 5:50 PM

Cheer up love you just haven't met the right one. You need to find a real man that will treat u like a queen.... ;)

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by Anonymous on Jun 6, 2013 at 9:07 PM

Stop your whining. You had the perfect relationship, then fucked it up by bringing up marriage. Fuckin women always have to fuck things up with a piece of worthless paper that costs half of everything to get rid of the bitch when it goes bad.

by Anonymous on Jun 7, 2013 at 6:43 PM

Thank you to the first guy.

For the second guy. What is so wrong about wanting to devote myself to the same guy for the rest of my life? What's so bad about wanting to have children with him? why does that make me a bitch? I would do anything for him.

by Anonymous on Jun 8, 2013 at 11:06 AM

In my opinion, I would slow it down a little.

You're 24 years and from what it sounds like, looking for a life long commitment. You should try just having some fun for a little before creating these expectations or else you'll inevitably develop this kind of perspective towards men and finding a meaningful relationship later on. Your post kind of says it all. You say a few times that the guy you are currently with is "perfect" but if the feelings aren't mutual and you're being hurt then he clearly isn't that perfect. From my experience, no one is ever perfect. Hope this helps

by Anonymous on Jun 8, 2013 at 11:12 AM

Like most women, you are acutely aware of the selfishness of guys, but not of your own selfishness. Like the first response that you liked, you want to be treated like a queen. Some guys dig that, but most want a partner in life, not an over grown child who always needs things to go her way and gets upset when they don't. The way guys are with you have as much do with how they perceive you as what it reveals about themselves. If you just look at the guys you've had, whether selfish or sensitive it still ended the same with you alone. Maybe if you didn't just lie there and expect the guy to do everything, some of the guys would've put more effort into it because they found you more deserving. You'll never know.

by Anonymous on Jun 8, 2013 at 3:41 PM

Give someone else a chance to talk about commitment. Women seem to think that they must quicly tie down a man if they like him. Marriage does not insure that you will keep someone forever. It is of course supposed to be forever, but modern society does not follow those ethos. Sounds to me like you spooked this guy. He probably feels like you have just been nice to him because you want to trap him. I am not saying that is how you are or what you are doing. I am just trying to give you insight. You seem like a pretty cool girl. Maybe talk to him and tell him that you are not trying to rush him. Marriage is scary to men because of what happens in divorces. Guys are usually on the recieving end of the majority of misfortune when there is a divorce. Women tend to get what is theirs and half of what is his. So guys are cautious about that. No relationship will ever be perfect. How could it be? No person afterall is perfect. So I suggest you let him know that you are fine with taking time and enjoying each other. Let him build his trust in you and then see what happens. Do not put matters of the heart on a schedule. Especially if you expect it to last forever. Forever never ends, just as it never started. It always was, so no need in trying to create something that already is.

by Anonymous on Jun 8, 2013 at 9:56 PM

Your welcome honey its my pleasure to bring a smile to your face. Maybe I'm old fashion but I believe in devoting your heart body n soul to the one you love. Good luck in your future to finding Mr Right

by Anonymous on Jun 9, 2013 at 11:32 AM

I understand what you guys are saying. I admit I can be selfish. I just feel like I'm already with the only guy I will ever want to be with. I know women who've been with guys for ten years and are in their thirties, no kids and their relationships are falling apart. They've invested the best part of their lives to these men and find themselves just starting out again. Alone. I don't want that to happen to me. I don't want to be alone at 35 and marrying some guy I don't care about because I'm alone.

Oh, and to the guy who said I shouldn't just lie there. I don't! I never have! But there's a lot of guys out there who aren't interested. They just want to get their rocks off and don't care about anything more than sticking it in and getting it done as quickly as possible. Sex with them is a chore, it's like they're just using my vagina to masturbate with. But if you make it about fun and mutual satisfaction good luck keeping up with me!!!

by Anonymous on Jun 12, 2013 at 1:42 PM

This substantiates my old saying: "For every male action there is a female reaction!"

by Anonymous on Jun 20, 2013 at 5:56 AM

Hey, here's a thought - try sitting down with your "perfect" partner and having a frank, honest discussion with him. Talk about how his actions make you feel used and unwanted. If he's open to the discussion expand into your expectations for the future, how your intention in the relationship is for it to mature eventually into marriage. If that goes well, talk about your desire for children. These discussions don't all have to happen in one sitting (in fact, I suggest spreading them out over time) but do need to happen.

by Anonymous on Jun 21, 2013 at 8:31 PM

So you want to commit to a man that is running away from the first sign of commitment. That's your perfect partner? You're gonna have a rough life lady.

by Anonymous on Jul 2, 2013 at 11:17 AM

Damn, that was beautiful!! -> "Do not put matters of the heart on a schedule. Especially if you expect it to last forever. Forever never ends, just as it never started. It always was, so no need in trying to create something that already is."

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