by Anonymous on Jul 2, 2013 at 9:44 AM

Tell him sweets, just tell him that it's upsetting you that you can't connect with him the way you need to sexually. Admit that you've been trying to provoke him and apologize. Then just tell him that you understand now that the only thing that is going to save your relationship is to be honest with him.

Try breaking him into the stuff you like gently, a bit of light bondage, spanking, forceful fellatio, or some kind of role play (prison's a good one... punishment for not doing your chores?). You don't want to overkill it anyway. These days people do everything in a weekend and then wonder why the rest of their sex lives are boring as hell.

You gotta understand that he might not appreciate at all that someone that he loves would want or need or get anything from being treated like crap when he's showing his love... if only we were all as well adjusted as him ;) So it might take him a while to get into it. Really let him know that you love him and worship him and that he's totally giving you what you need when you start to get it.

I wish you good luck my lovely x