I've been actively bisexual since I was 12. I am open to MF, MMF, MFF, FF, and group and I've been in each of those. More recently I've been noticing how my choice for the night affects the way I dress.

Looking for guys: a little slutty... short skirt, leave off the bra, a pair of heels, a bit too much eye liner and shadow, and put the lipstick on like icing on a cake. I'm usually in someone's sights before 10 minutes is up.

But for girls, you have to dress: black mini, 5 button blouse, with camisole beneath, 5" pumps, impeccable face, and a hint of nice perfume. More like dressing for a "power meeting", than what I used to think about dressing for a date. Show confidence with a little vulnerability and it's just about perfect.

More and more I find I prefer to dress, look nice, and enjoy the company of women.