while working for a successful popular doctor I was often under his control and worse was his mother. one day she came into the clinic and made comments that were strange to me. I wondered what would make her say for me to stop bothering her son. I never gave him any trouble what so ever while working for him, and indeed did plenty of overtime and worked during lunches for him. he became more and more demanding on me breaking down my self worth so I left his employment even though I liked the job. the doctors wife was hinting about him spending time with me but I didn't want to do that at all with him, I didn't feel attracted to him at all. I have since wondered what their private life was like and if they were into partner swapping, which everyone seems to be into now.