well it was about 20 years ago me and my wife were not getting along to well in bed also.i do not know how it happened but my wife's freinds's 11 or 12 year old son stayed over at our house alot she said her Friends needed a break from the kids as they had 2 girls and i guess they fought alot i didn't think anything of it him staying over.but after a time i started to wonder.every time he would stay over she would sleep on the couch he made a bed on the floor type thing.i thought not much of it at first as we were not having sex or were not very close anymore.she would sleep in her nightie no bra but then i still didn't clue in as he was just a 11 or 12 year old friend of the family.I started to have a feeling something was not right one night i walked out maybe surprised her she was at the t.v pretending to change channels he was near the t.v.but we had a channel changer she used this all the time never seen her do it manually ??was she doing something?? i don't know??so after that i knew that he and my wife would be alone all day as i went to work.so i did have a really old crappy tape deck that made so much gear noise it was impossible to make sense of a recording i did tape it and thought i heard love making noise .deep down i had a gutt feeling that something was going on now i don't mind my wife cheating as this is a fantasy of mine but with a man not a boy.and i did catch her with her 12 year old female cousin that stayed over i walked out and caught them pulling up there panties and her cousin pulling her hand out of her area .so i know that for a fact I was shocked didn't say anything about it.how do you tell anyone about that and it's family.so like some feedback does anyone else think she slept with this boy??and can a boy have a developed penis at that age ?? i can't remember