My wife and I have been married twenty years. We experimented in the swinger thing a few years ago and enjoyed it. We evolved into playing solo except for parties. We both have different tastes and found that if I was interested in the woman, she wasn't turned on by the guy and vice versa. We solved it easy enough. We meet our play partners and if all are agreed we meet up solo.

My wife likes to meet younger hard body white guys and aggressive hung older black guys. For a long time she was nervous and needed a few drinks to get going. I would bring her. Hang around until she was comfortable then slip away for a couple of hours.

Six times in the last couple of months I've come home to find a note saying she went out. She arrives home later to tell me how she met up with a guy and had a blast. She met guys at hotels four times for all night fuck sessions and twice in cars. Once to fuck and once just to suck a guy off on the fly.

I'd say she's gotten used to the lifestyle.