I'm 5' 1 with auburn hair that goes past my shoulders, ivory/milky skin that is lightly freckled, emerald green eyes, round 42C cup breasts, and pretty active.

I like guys who have a bigger build with beards! [Straight version of a gay man's bear lol]

I have a boyfriend. I love him dearly, he has been my first EVERYTHING. We have been inseparable since I was 15 and he 18. He is my best friend. Him and I haven't had the easiest childhoods, but we made it this far. He does A LOT for me..Except one thing. He is not romantic at all. He doesn't like making out or anything to get me in the mood [men, us ladies take longer to get off - 4play is a MUST!].

I know for a fact there is no one else, so what am I not doing or doing wrong?? :/

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Oct 23, 2013 at 12:07 PM

You don't know for a fact or you wouldn't be here. You don't know because you have had no one else. Be careful not to confuse sex comparability with deep friendship . Makes for a great old age but gee you get bored

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Oct 23, 2013 at 12:20 PM

This my sound a little strange, but warm yourself up and let him watch. I had the same problem with a bf. He didn't know that I needed more time to get going and he didn't really know how to get me there either, but I started giving him shows of me getting myself in the mood and he soon leaned that I really liked foreplay and what I liked done to me. An added bonus was that he fucked harder, more times per session, and more often too. Show him you have sexual needs and hopefully he'll love it and take the hint.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Oct 23, 2013 at 9:38 PM

1st commenter
I really do there is no one else. He has a keylogger on his computer which I can access. Maybe you are right about the friendship thing, but it feels like it is more when he looks into my eyes.

2nd commenter
tried that. he knows what gets me there.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Nov 6, 2013 at 12:59 PM

I think it's simple.

He's a 19 year old boy who's become complacent and lazy. If he can't love the hot 22 year old bombshell of a girl who loves him (presumably, that he loves back and also presumably that you're still fucking him) they way she needs-- then you can't really do much...

Except have a talk with him about your needs and make it a dealbreaker if he can't at least try to please you the way you want.

Life's too short. I'm not trying to be salacious, but I am 46 year old married guy... And I know for a fact that the way he's acting is no way to treat a sexually mature woman of any age.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Nov 16, 2013 at 7:07 PM

4th Commenter
-He is 24. We've basically grew up together. We met about 8yrs together. I have told him how I feel. He does do little things like cook and hardly wants my help cleaning- which I do appreciate that and I make sure he knows it.

Sex isn't everything, I know, but I just need some romance. Everything else is good.. He keeps joking about a baby, which I know he wants, but I said no, not until I graduate college and get employment with my degree.I feel kinda lost. I love him so much. Am I asking for too much?

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Feb 1, 2014 at 10:17 PM

The lady is always right. I'm sorry. I wish I had something really good and planned, or a real piece of tactical brilliance. But I don't. So just tell him how you feel. Wait. You could always play the waiting game. You can play around, foreplay, rub your cock on the pussy, but no penetration for 20 minutes.

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