I've never gone to one of my high school class reunions. My husband has been trying to talk me into going to my thirtieth and I have repeatedly told him I don't feel the need to see the people I graduated with. He thinks I was a virgin when we met when I was 23. I wasn't. I never said I was. He just assumed it because he was. In fact I was very promiscuous in high school and college. I graduated in a class of 200 and I slept with or gave oral sex to at least thirty guys in the class and I just know that everyone thinks of me as "that girl" and I'd be devastated if someone I was with back then made some comment about me that reflected poorly in my husband's eyes. So I'm not going.