As a kid I grew in a Christian house that went to church every week and wasn't exposed to much of he worldly stuff out there. I wasn't allow to sleep over at a friend's house,they had to always come to our house. Rarely did spent a night at a friends house and now I do understand why my parents kept me so sheltered because the tragedy of what could happen has hit my home with both my daughter and son being victims of rape and sodomy,although she doesn't call it rape but as the mother of a 13 yr old daughter,she was raped and the guy 42 has been charged with 74 counts of rape on my daughter that went on a whole year before I found out she has been sexually active with him she was 12. I'm trying hard to let the justice system work for y family but it's a tough fight for me not to do something stupid. My son was molested Jan. 10th of this year ad he has been institutionalized for now and we hope he responds to treatment soon. I need strength to get thru the holidays.