I can only get off by a vibrator or in the shower with the detachable shower head pulsing water on my clit. Just having something fucking my pussy is not enough. I have never orgasmed during sex or even in front of another person. I cannot get myself off by just my hand. Except for one time. I had just bought my first butt plug and was making an hour drive home when I decided I wanted to go ahead and use it. Thinking about driving with it in my ass turned me on so much I couldn't resist. So alone in the car, I continued driving and put it in. It turned me on so much that I was able to rub myself off while going down the highway at 75 mph.