my best friend (a straight female my age like me) and i have developed a bad habit, we like to go out and flirt with guys during the afternoon then get taken somewhere together for casual sex. we've done it three times since we graduated high school this summer. our cruising spot is the mall, where we pick out a pair of cute guys then figure out how to get talking to them. it hasn't been hard to find guys because there is a state university in town. we do it during the day because it is alot safer and no alcohol is involved. the usual thing is to get talking to them, then they invite us to the food court, learn something about them so we can size them up and see if they are worthy, then if its a go we ask if we can go and see their apt. or dorm roon -- usually that seals the deal. when we get to their place we get to it right away - nothing is more exciting than to watch your best friend go down on a guy while you are getting felt up. its very liberating, we control what we do and who we are with, and we so far have had no regrets.