My best friend since childhood's son was going away to college. She was concerned because he'd never had a girlfriend and hadn't been social at all through high school. He's a cute boy whose just painfully shy. There was no question in my mind that he was a virgin. Throughout August I thought more and more about him fantasizing what it would be like to be the older woman who takes his virginity and shows him the ropes. I found myself thinking about it the few times my husband and I had sex that month and masturbated to a long drawn out fantasy I had where I seduced him. He went off to school but is back now most certainly still a virgin. I'm going to have a few opportunities to be alone with him over the next six weeks. I'm trying to convince myself to go for it. I'm just afraid that he won't be able to keep it a secret and my friend and my husband will find out. It's such a temptation.