Will it last?? Who knows?? But for right now, this certainly is a very nice arrangement and neither of have any complaints!
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Sounds beautiful. I think that a lot of women secretly dream about experiencing something like this, and without being lesbians. Maybe more women should open up and try it!
I think the term "lesbian" has taken on extra meaning in recent years--lesbian is just having exclusive female relations. At this point you your life you are a practicing lesbian: you are in a female gay monogamous relationship.
At some point that does not rule out you having a different relationship that will change your "sexual definition".
I have never bought into the philosophy that you are born gay, bi, or straight--at some point in your life you have attractions for others--same gender or not, and you have to make a choice each time you choose a relationship.
I think it very sad to hear: That guy (girl) is so cute,if I weren't a lesbian (straight or gay), then I'd date him (her). Getting stuck into a "gay" or not rut is tragic, then you have feeling otherwise.
Kudos to both of you !! Glad to hear your both happy & content....life's short so enjoy!!
You guys live together, have sex on a regular basis and share the same bed. Anyway you want to label this or call it whatever u want, you are in a relationship with a woman. You may not want to label yourself a "lesbian" but you are definitively living the life of one. With that said, have fun.
'Lesbian' is a particular mindset... personally I am attracted to people... not to any one type... and I will engage them sexually as a way of sharing and having a deep intimacy with them... I share my bed with males and females because they touch me on a deeper level than 'friendship'