So I'm a 16 year old girl and I've been getting myself off for quite a while, but I haven't actually had sex yet. Thing is, I find it really hard to concentrate and orgasm without porn. A guy's gone down on me for a couple minutes before but my thoughts kept straying. I'm scared that when it comes to actual sex, I won't be able to orgasm. I don't want to fake it, and I don't want to rely on a vibe. Any suggestions???? Really appreciate it. X