My husband has gambling problem and in treatment. We hit the convenience store to get milk and bread, and he plays Keno. He promised to stop this, loosing all our money. HE NEVER WINS. Same store takes payments for electric and phone bills. He told me he paid them, NO he lost the money playing Keno and scratch lotto tickets.

Last night I went with him. In my PJ's only I sit in the car and wait. After an hour I walk in and he is watching the TV screen. Fucker playing Keno again.

I start in and worry the store owner will nto like what I say. Man passes me on the way out, ask me if I am ok.

he sees tears and knows I am upset. I ask him to drive me home, husband has car keys. he seemed nice and trusting. He talked with me in the drive way and told this trip was out of his way. I feel guilty I have wasted this mans time and gas. So I offer him my help in return. he tells he has been alone for 2 years and looking for a nice girl. Has not had sex in almost 4 years.
So I feel pissed and want to get back at my husband. So I invite him in the house. He parks the car down the St. Figure if my husband comes home, out the back door and walk to his car.
I offer to give him a hand job and let him feel me up. We start by kissing some and then he starts fingering me. I put him in the kitchen chair and get on the floor. I suck and its not working. Not really into this but feel its fair. He ask if he can give me oral in place of him. So he puts me on the kitchen table. pulls my bottoms off and starts. feels good to me and I start to enjoy it. I have an orgasm and look up after, I want to quit. He sticks me with his cock. Before I know hat happened he is fucking me. Tells me I will be quick, just hold on. I wonder if my husband will walk in and catch us. I look at the door and listen for the car. I finally tell him to stop. he does not. I tell him NOT to cum inside me. Don't cum in me OK, OK! He said Ok. will cum with my hand, just and I feel him spray me. He holds me hips and keep juicing in me. I can not fight him off and he is enjoying it.
He tells me he knows my husband, went to school with him. If I don't meet him when he calls, he will tell him. And he knows my family. Called my mom and dad by name. Said he works with my dad.

Now I wonder if he got me pregnant, did he have any STD's I need to worry about. Should I tell my husband?? What in the world do I do??

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jan 9, 2014 at 11:26 AM

First of all ditch your loser husband he will NEVER change, Then leave and tell the creep who is blackmailing you to go and fuck himself, When you leave move as far away as you can change your name if you want to it is very easy to get lost if you want to, Get yourself checked out to put your mind at rest, There IS a better life for you out there you just have to believe in it, As for your husband a real man provides for his wife and family is a real man what you want? Then ditch the waster as soon as you can, Perhaps your family might help you too.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jan 9, 2014 at 3:05 PM

Arguably you were raped. Call a women's crisis line.
Leave your husband.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jan 10, 2014 at 3:39 AM

Would you describe the PJs you had on when you went into the store? Were they thin and skimpy and could you see your panties through them? I wonder if this is what got the store owner horny.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jan 10, 2014 at 8:03 AM

1. I have family in the area, can not live with out them. he is not violent, just sick man.

2. rape might be confusing, I could have taken the sex I guess. I just wanted him to cum outside me. I don't take meds as my husband can not have children. Not a chance.

3. I did not enter the store, man knows me. had no bra and did not want to show him my breast and nipples.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jan 11, 2014 at 12:25 AM

You are worthy of being treated with respect. And of having the right to decide what kind of life you want. YOU ARE NOT A CHILD. YOU DO NOT DESERVE TO BE TREATED AS AN OBJECT, OR FORCED TO DO ANYTHING. Here is what you have to consider -- I can't tell you what to do:
1. If your husband is not supporting you, and is wasting the family's money on gambling, he is (a) guilty of non-support (b) has an addiction. You have the CHOICE of staying with him, or leaving him. Probably it would make sense to move in with your family and tell your husband that you cannot stay with him if he cannot treat his family responsibly and care for their financial needs. Leaving him, even temporarily, will be a signal to him that you expect him to change and hold him accountable. Do NOT return until his conduct actually changes. Promises don't count. Facts do. Return when the facts have changed.
2. You should tell your husband that he needs professional help to stop his gambling habit. If he refuses to get help, tell him your not coming back, and move out for good.
3. Get your family's help and support. Go to them right away and confess what happened. Tell them that you made a mistake -- you did, in allowing this man sexual contact -- but that you did not intend to be raped (which you were). Tell them about the rapist's threats. Tell your husband also. Then tell your father and your husband that you need them to tell the rapist that if he ever talks to you again or approaches you again, they will beat the hell out of him and have him arrested.
4. Go to the police and report the rape. They probably will not prosecute, but report it anyway. Put it on the record that he not only raped you, but threatened you with blackmail. Be specific and factual in your report. Insist that although you made a mistake in inviting the man in, that is NOT THE SAME AS ASKING TO BE RAPED.
5. No matter how hurt and lonely and mistreated you feel, remember that promiscuity with other men is not the answer. You are a good person. You are a responsible person. Act like it. Do not seek out sex from other men -- it will only weaken your feelings of self-respect. It will also weaken your credibility with your family and the police and your reputation in the community. Work hard, and build up your determination and self-respect. You deserve the love of a good man, and you may find one in due course.
6. If the rapist talks to you again, or tries to, hang up the phone or walk away without a word. Do not say one word to him. Do not have any contact with him. If he repeatedly tries to call you or stalks you at your home, go to the police, and file an order of protection against him. Keep his phone messages, voicemail, emails, or text messages as evidence for the police. If they do not take your case seriously, make repeated requests, showing them a log -- a written record -- of every time he tries to approach you or contacts you in any way. Emphasize that you have not encouraged the contact, that you feel endangered, and that you need protection from what amounts to stalking. Emphasize the unwanted sexual contact you already suffered from this man, and the blackmail he threatened.
7. Are you already supporting your family? Then work hard at building up a work record and increasing your job skills. You are probably very intelligent, from your post. Go get some more training and education, if possible. Take your skills and abilities seriously, and show that you expect others to take your work skills seriously also.
8. Don't give up. Fight back. Protect yourself. Hold your head up high.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jan 11, 2014 at 11:13 AM

EXCELLENT advice from #5. Follow it, you will not regret it. Get to a safe place. If you love your husband understand that enabling his destructive behaviour by doing and saying nothing hurts you both. Dont be a doormat to either of these men. ps. I'm a man. PROTECT YOURSELF.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jan 11, 2014 at 7:12 PM

Ditto on #5's comment. Very wise. Do it and life can be good.

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