Straight Male / 50
Sharing my Wife: Upon reading the few stories about this topic I'm encouraged to tell my story.
My experience started when my wife casually mentioned that a good friend of ours was hinting he wanted to have sex with her. She knew me well enough to know, when telling me this, I wouldn't get angry and would probably be amused. She was right. I was amused. We have a very loving and strong marriage that has little room for jealousy. To tell the truth, the thought of our friend making love to my wife titillated me and I told her that. She didn't know how to respond so I went on to tell her that it was her decision and if she wanted to share herself with our friend she had my blessing. Her response was non-committal but, with her smile, I could tell that she was bemused.
Time passed and we had no more discussion of this. I still remembered how exciting it was to give my wife permission to have sex with our friend but, there was no indication anything was happening between them.
But the day came when she accidentally left the house with her email account open on our computer. It was a message from our friend telling how much he enjoyed making love to her. The eroticism of reading another man's account of having sexual intercourse with my wife was rapturous. I said nothing of my discovery to either of them but, from that day, having sex with my wife was enhanced by images in my mind of our friend doing the same.
There were a few other times she "accidentally" left her email open on an intimate message from our friend. I began to think that this was intentional and her way of letting me know about her affair. It emboldened me to talk to her about it. She did want me to know but she was uncomfortable talking about it. I reassured her that I was still okay with it but, while she confessed that she enjoyed the variety of having two lovers, it was time to call it off. To her it was getting to be too much. It would have been nice if it had blossomed into a relationship between the three of us but it was not to be. We're all still friends and, to this day, thinking of the intimacies our friend shared with my wife still makes my lovemaking with her very exciting.
My experience started when my wife casually mentioned that a good friend of ours was hinting he wanted to have sex with her. She knew me well enough to know, when telling me this, I wouldn't get angry and would probably be amused. She was right. I was amused. We have a very loving and strong marriage that has little room for jealousy. To tell the truth, the thought of our friend making love to my wife titillated me and I told her that. She didn't know how to respond so I went on to tell her that it was her decision and if she wanted to share herself with our friend she had my blessing. Her response was non-committal but, with her smile, I could tell that she was bemused.
Time passed and we had no more discussion of this. I still remembered how exciting it was to give my wife permission to have sex with our friend but, there was no indication anything was happening between them.
But the day came when she accidentally left the house with her email account open on our computer. It was a message from our friend telling how much he enjoyed making love to her. The eroticism of reading another man's account of having sexual intercourse with my wife was rapturous. I said nothing of my discovery to either of them but, from that day, having sex with my wife was enhanced by images in my mind of our friend doing the same.
There were a few other times she "accidentally" left her email open on an intimate message from our friend. I began to think that this was intentional and her way of letting me know about her affair. It emboldened me to talk to her about it. She did want me to know but she was uncomfortable talking about it. I reassured her that I was still okay with it but, while she confessed that she enjoyed the variety of having two lovers, it was time to call it off. To her it was getting to be too much. It would have been nice if it had blossomed into a relationship between the three of us but it was not to be. We're all still friends and, to this day, thinking of the intimacies our friend shared with my wife still makes my lovemaking with her very exciting.
